Sometimes i feel like the ugliest person in the world?

Question

i dont know why but sometimes i get like that.I just look at myself in the mirror and hate what i see.I have stretch marks all over my body, acne on my arms and back.I'm realy shy and dont have many friends.I think i dont have any cuz i just feel so self consicous all the time.I'm scared of what other people might think of me.I wasnt allways like the way i am now, but i used to get picked on alot as a kid. so thats another reason why i am the way i am.I never go out as much.And i feel like i hate myself sometimes.

Answer 1

Girl I know how you are feeling! I am having a lot of trouble dropping the weight from my last pregnancy... 3 YEARS AGO!!! It sucks and can really get me down. Ive noticed I feel alot better when I eat healthy and exercise. I try to do something for me at least once a week. Also get out of those comfy sweats and put some nice clothes on... fix your hair and put a little make-up on. I don't care if you are sitting at home all day or not. When you get dressed you feel better about yourself!

Answer 2

I do too. I just keep going, since it really makes no difference what other folks think about my appearance. I will say stay presentable, clean, and well dressed. That is a good way to be able to look at yourself and say "this is what I have, like it or not".

I used to be very shy, now that I have aged a bit (45 now). I just don't really give a fart what others think. I wish I had taken that attitude 20 years ago. I would have had a lot more fun!

BTW, people come in all shapes and sizes. I am a big man, and overweight. I firmly believe that it's not what meets the eye where the person is, it is who is inside that body (your soul, or spirit) what matters. Fine folks are not all pretty to look at. Fine women are not always the runway models either. I hate to use the old adage, but it is true "beauty is only skin deep".

Take care of what God gave you, be respectful, and respectable. Folks take to that a lot better than a fake shell, with nothing inside.

Answer 3

Well, you live on the right Planet. MOST of us feel like that at one time or another. Life can be tough. But then- that's where YOU come in; YOU have to be tougher! (If life were Easy- then everybody would be GOOD at it. And most of us- aren't). You sound pretty Cool to ME, & I can tell by your spelling (!) that you must be pretty smart- too! So maybe the ONLY thing that's REALLY "holding you back"- is You. Believe in YOURSELF. It's ALL that matters. -No kidding. You're NO worse, or better, or different- than anybody else. The only thing that can STOP you from getting anything you want- is your not believing it... And that's a fact. Hang in there- & good luck! :)

Answer 4

If you can only be happy with the way you look--then what really is happiness? Looks are dust compared to what's inside. I'm not exactly the skinniest hottest chick on the block but I learn to live and at least I'm glad I have some morality and what not. I'm sure you are a beautiful person--maybe it's time that you realize it too.

The people who think they are the most beautiful people in the world are some of the ugliest. Keep that in mind.

Answer 5

well no worries there like i always say" beauty is only skin deep". it's really ur personality that counts in life. the prettyiest girls can the biggest bitches in the world and ugliest can be the most generous. THAT"S what counts. my only advice is to be urself.

stretch marks: proper diet and excersize should help clear that up over time.
acne: remember that everyone will get them and that only a few are lucky enough not to get them once in their life time. but i suggest eating plenty of vegis and fruits drink lots of water. lay off the meat ( once in a while in small quantities)and junk food fried and fast food is a BIG NO NO. and wash ur face DAILY first with warm water to open the pores and use special care products to clean out ur pores then splash with cold water to close the pores but what ever u do, DONT POP THEM!!! cause there's a chance it will get infected.

when i was little, i used to get picked alot and sometimes still do but me, instead of being self concious, i turned suicidal XD

Answer 6

Everyone goes through that stage.

Maybe you should see a Dr? They might be able to help whatever imbalances that you might have.

Then start working on your self confidence.
Don't worry about what people think of you. If you feel that on the inside it definitely is going to look like that from the outside.
Start looking at yourself like you are beautiful and worth something then you might actually start believing it.

Answer 7

I understand. I look in the mirror too and try to look for flaws. You are not alone in that! For me when I see other people, I think they're probably off better than me in every way. Some people think they're better than others. Some don't even notice and just try to look beyond skin deep. Everyone looks at themselves and other people differently. I think the most important thing is to look at HOW you think of yourself and other people. I mean beyond skin lots of us are in your position and cope with it differently. I mean those people that picked on you did it to get your reaction but mainly for THEMSELVES as a satisfaction... because they may feel as self conscious as you! So the good thing is, you're probably good with people because you're concerned with what they think. You don't pick on people yourselves too do you? As you get older, those immature kids dissapear because no one wants to be around that kind of person. But you, you see... you will be loved if you're sensitive and concerned about other people. If you let that quality shine... everyone will forget your flaws... so if I were you.. I would embrace the good qualities. I wish you best of luck!

Answer 8

Try to do something productive when you are having these feelings to get your mind off the negative. Such as cleaning the house, dancing alone to some music, take a walk. Being proactive will make you feel and look better and you will be less negative.

Answer 9

oh no everyone feels like that rather they admit it or not. you have to just keep living life no matter what you look like. what if you got burned in a fire you would still need to live life you cant give up, i am a model and i feel ugly sometimes too. its pretty normal for women also.find your beauty.

Answer 10

hmmm hello lady um..hehe i just feel teh same way and i hurt my self by hiting my head but i dont cut me but just look in the mirror and jut cry all u have to cry and then look at something u really like at ur face body ect..and just focus on that one thing