For me it is probably one of the many love sayings I've heard. It goes like this:
"Look away, becasue they hardest thing to do is watch someone you want, want someone else."
That saying couldn't be anymore true!
2007-08-10 17:48:37 · 32 answers · asked by ~*~<3~*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's WANT not LOVE. Duhh. Love is reciprocal, and a positive regard for someone, so what you are feeling isn't really love if he doesn't want you, what you are feeling is a sad lack of control over another being.
2007-08-10 17:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by contessa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The hardest thing about love is to realize and accept both you and your partner will change with time. Whether two people grow apart or together depends on open communications, trust, and helping each other to be better people.
Love in it purest form should be unconditional(unselfish), yet marriage itself is conditional (I love you only if you love me).
The chemicals/hormones causes intense attractions are nothing but evolutionary vestiges that are part of the animal kingdom.
The Second hardest thing is forgiveness.
"Forgiveness is the scent a rose sheds on the heel that has crushed it."
2007-08-10 18:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by DarkStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with you. It is very difficult for you when the person that you believe you love, is in love with someone else. It would be nice if we could turn off the heart all the time. But once in a while someone will sneak in, when you least expect it, before you can put a wall up and have a better opportunity to check them out. Then they are trapped there, only to find that they love somebody else. It sucks!!
But if you really love them, then you ultimately want them to be happy, and if it is with someone else, then the right thing to do, is to leave them alone and try to move on.
Good Luck.
2007-08-10 17:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by DONNA W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hardest thing for me is worrying that I'm not good enough to be with the person I love. Then I start to push them away because I'm so worried about losing them that I forget how to hold onto them.
2007-08-10 17:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but I also believe that if you truly love someone, you would be happy in watching that person fall in love with someone he/she completely deserves. In love nothing is too hard. If you know you want each other and are willing to stick it through, why worry!! you can work out anything :)
2007-08-10 17:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Valia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that would be the Hardest*thing to do..( to watch someone you Love...be with someone else)
2007-08-10 17:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me the hardest part of love is to see them do nothing but get hurt and all you want is them. Well of course I mean watching them get broken hearts and slowly breaking your own.
2007-08-10 17:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Yemiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres so many things hard about it that i would just say love in general is hard.
falling out of love
loveing someone who
will never love you
loving someone who is
gone or died
loving someone so much it hurts
needing someone so desperatly and not being
to explain to them why
saying the words i love you for the first time
regretting the words i hate you for the first time
bcuz truthfully you dont and will never mean it
2007-08-10 17:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by hug-whore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. You would care if that person want somebody else. Like that New Edition song, 'If It Isn't Love". Falling in love is good for you health but being in love is dangerous.
2007-08-10 17:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing one day I will die, and knowing my significant other will too, but what is really hard is if they go first. I don't think I could love someone else the same.
2007-08-10 17:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by wiseornotyoudecide 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋