I woke up this morning feeling very lonely and don't why I was even thinking about it. But for sometime I have really wanted a girlfriend and not just any girl but a girl who I could have a real relationship with. Later I sat in church and EVERYBODY seemed to be with somebody and I felt even more lonely? Am I feeling sorry for myself?
2007-08-10 17:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand how you feel. You feel a void in your life, and left out. It tough when you are waiting for the 'right' girl to come into your life. Only God knows when that will be. We people of faith have to stand strong, and not be weak. I do believe God has somebody who is the right somebody that we are to share our lives with. Keep in mind that all those people you see sitting with their "somebody's", may have settled for someone that God did not want them to be with. You are doing the right thing by waiting till you are certain. It is a lonely, long, road. I also don't believe in wasting my time with just anybody. I want to wait for what God has for me. It is so hard and frustrating that I think God has forgotten about me, and what my needs are. But I will tell you this, God has never once let me down, and has always come thru in just the nick of time. I am expecting this will happen in just the nick of time for us. In the meantime, I also will fight the "feeling sorry for myself" attitude. : )
2007-08-10 17:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by DONNA W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to take a wild guess and say that you probably feel like you don't get the love and attention that you deserve at home. You feel like they don't care about you, so your only response is to feel like you're worthless. Everyday you have an opportunity to do something extraordinary. Set goals for yourself. Determine who you would like to be as a person, and then work towards that in small steps. Usually that means you'll have to do something that you're afraid to do, like go stand next to the other people instead of sitting in the corner. Gradually gain acceptance and assurance from other peers. You can be anything you choose to be. It's not something other people decide for you. I would also recommend counseling. Or at least talk this issue over with someone you can trust.
2016-05-19 05:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by maureen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you're not alone in that. There is a lot of pressure to be partnered especially in some Christian circles. Just keep in mind that just because someone has "someone" it doesn't necessarily mean they are happy. It could be a case of pairing for all the wrong reasons.
You are right to wait for the right person. Maybe it's time to find a church where there isn't such an overemphasis on pairing up, and has a true singles ministry that isn't just a glorified dating service.
2007-08-10 18:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of Ya*......I think you need to pick yourself up, call up some friends, head on out and meet people. You can't sit at home or in church , alone, feeling sorry for yourself. Only YOU can change how you live your life. Get up and do something.go somewhere, meet people.
You will find that Special someone who you will Love you for Who YOU are on the inside...It all starts from Within.~..
What makes you smile? laugh? Join a sport or fitness group......go to the Pool and meet people*, go to the park..enjoy the outdoors while you can as winter will be here in no time........Just get on up and get on out and meet some ppl> Live life......don't let it slip you by*~
Best wishes*
2007-08-10 17:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might seem like it but not everyone has someone to love or be with. everyone feels lonely at times. if you want a girlfriend then go out and find her or let her come to you. love isn't something you can force. it just happens.
2007-08-10 17:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by ladyamethyst83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,, in church is not the place to think about being alone, pray for Gods help , and try not to get too depressed about being alone ,(easier said than done) been there.is there again,
2007-08-10 17:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a little, but mostly since you are alone, you are noticing more often that you are alone in being alone as well. when in fact you aren't.
never mind..yes you are feeling sorry for yourself.
2007-08-10 17:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are. But then again, I don't blame you!
Have a girlfriend to talk to is great, but fuking her is even better. It is actually the best part!
2007-08-10 17:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong to feel that way, but you've just really got to put yourself out there if it bothers you that bad. Take action.
2007-08-10 17:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE LORD WILL PROVIDE A WOMAN FOR YOU TO EAT.
2007-08-10 17:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋