ok in the passed month 5 guys have asked me out.
but i HATE being single but the only guys that ask me out are the players or the gang babagers or the neres and this guys ithat i cruh on dont like me they say im pretty but they see me just as a friend i honestly think im ugly!
help what do i do i really nice and dont want to hurt their feeling how do i let them do easy?
2007-08-10 16:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are doing nothing wrong.
Sure you want to be in a relationship, but you need to just relax...seeming intense and/or desperate scares off good men and attracts creeps. It's like the Supremes sang long ago "you can't hurry love." It will come. Honest.
Friendship is a good start...and who know if maybe those guys may have friends you may want to get to know you as more than a friend someday?
2007-08-10 17:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to work on you, because if you feel you're ugly and hate being single that much then you have self-esteem issues. The reason players and such ask you out is that they play on insecure women, they are easier to keep and control. As for not wanting to hurt someones feelings, just tell them thank you but that you are not dating people right now, your working on you right now, without men in your life. If they have a problem with that then who cares about them.
2007-08-11 00:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be a idea if you raise your sights higher> as the 1s you have mentioned are not of any quality.There are nice guys that will respect you an be nice> The bangers will only be the beginning of drama in your life.
2007-08-11 00:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to look in different places for nice fun guys.
Be patient. If a guy asks you out and there is no connection just say no thanks. Nothing wrong with being single dear.
2007-08-11 00:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, go find guys that you like and work on them. Don't make them do all the work.
2007-08-10 23:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Will999909 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u betta lose that attitude cause people see you just like u see yourself so work it
2007-08-11 00:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill and teel them
2007-08-10 23:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋