hes willing to change something about himself but theres nothing i want to change about him so im kinda in a pickle he wants this of me but i don't want anything of him and he won't let up i don't want to break up with him because i do love and care about him but if he can't let this go i think i'll have to leave him for some one who can appreciate me for me and not want to change my body unless i want to change it what should i do?
2007-08-10 16:54:50 · 11 answers · asked by cyberreaper69 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
In the interest of hygiene and grooming, maintaining some kind of upkeep with your pubic area is recommended. But this can be as simple as trimming and shaving the edges. If you don't feel comfortable completely shaving the area, don't let your boyfriend pressure you into doing it. Sure, he can influence you a bit on your decision, maybe moreso on other, trivial things. But a girl's private regions are her own business. You do to them what you want to do, because it's YOUR body, not his.
Let him know that if he really cares for and respects you, he will quit his whining and let you deal with it however you see fit. This in itself is a petty thing to break up with a guy over, but if you see a trend (ex: he needs to control everything about you, needs to know where you are every second of the day, won't let you make decisions yourself), give your relationship some serious thought. If he's the good guy you think he is, eventually he'll realize that he loves you for you, without you changing a thing.
(However, I'd give him some time and obvious hints to get to that realization. He is, after all, a guy. =])
2007-08-10 17:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by a*perfect*teardrop 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of guys out there who dont really like to have all of the extra hairs if you know what i mean. Try trimming with scissors or something. But if he wants you to get a Brazilian bikini wax type treatment just tell him the day he waxes his area will be the day you wax yours. that should shut him up.
2007-08-10 18:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by De-De 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
in simple terms get a razor and do it interior the bathe. The bumps are razor burn in case you would be shaving you may desire to invest in some solid shaving cream. They make some esp. for that area of your physique to steer clear of razor burn. additionally shaving interior the direction of the hair additionally will decrease down on that.
2017-01-04 05:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right. If you don't want to shave then just tell him. If he really loves and cares about you he'll respect that.
2007-08-10 16:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by yeah yeah yeah... 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly don't want to do it, don't do it. It is no ones right to tell you to do something to your body. If he uses your relationship as a vice, then he obviously only wants control. If you don't want to shave, don't.
2007-08-10 17:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say try a compromise. maybe instead of shaving, try just a trim. maybe that will satisfy him. i'm not being vulgar but i have have just recently had this discussion at home myself. not all men prefer the smooth as a baby's butt look. but not all of us want the 70's free spirit look either. lol
2007-08-10 17:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by haley_cb 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should stop sleeping with horny selfish boys. IF you date a person for a long time, get to know him in more meaningful ways before becoming intimate with him, and then marry him before having sex with him, I think that you'll find that he's less likely to put such silly pressures on you to do something so superficial and meaningless.
Doesn't that sort of describe your entire relationship?
2007-08-10 17:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Just_One_Man's_Opinion 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
i meen come on...just shave it.It'll look much better.And there's nothing wrong with shaving.Make him shave or something...that would be a pretty stupid reason to break up if u REALLY LOVE HIM now wouldn't it???Is he really worth leaving over something like shaving??? think about this one more time and then make up ur mind???
2007-08-10 17:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Say NO and say it loudly and clearly.
See how easy?
2007-08-10 17:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by trueblue_410 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay firm
I would not cave to this
2007-08-10 17:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Michael M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋