In Love With My Best friend(he's a boy)?

Question

In Love With BestFriend!!!!!!!!!
ok so me and my bestfriend are pretty close we talk from 11:30Pm to 5:00am.We talk about everything.Sometimes he brings up girls name in the converstaion but i think he does that so he dosen't sound like he's a loser.i like him alot but don't know if i should tell him.he really cares about me a lot.i'm scarred that if i say i like him and he dosen't feel the same way are friendship will be ruined.i told him i like this guy but he dosen't know it's him.he keeps telling to tell the guy i like him but i refuse.what if he knows i'm talking about him?i need help so please help!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

You're in love with a best friend, who happens to be a guy? That's a good sign. And depending on various matters, it's a good thing, too! Who can honestly say, if a person is a loser, or not. I doubt he's anything the losers found in some novels. So he cares alot about you. So what? Why does that scare you? It shouldn't. Your friendship wont be ruined (that it could be is a stupid naieve theory or attitude.) but helped by it in some ways. Stop refusing, young lady! Maybe he knows it's him, but doesn't realize he does, or that it is. Give in to his feelings and be considerate. Stop being selfish and stubborn!If he knows, then so be it. It'll be better if he knows, and if he accepts it. I bet you a pizza, he feels the same way about you, but is just as shy as you are. You can't be that way forever, or you'll never have a relationship and will never have a wedding.

Answer 2

actually i am in the same boat as you. i like this guy and he is my really close guy friend i mean he's been overseas he's in the navy and we have became really close i could tell him everything. well about this time last year we were talking and discussing our feelings and it came out that we liked each other but he didnt want to try a relationship because like he said he was over there for almost another year and it might not work but he's been home for a couple months and i met him once and he really acted like he liked me. if i was you i would tell him cause if he likes you like that then i'm sure he likes you. see i am not so sure that this guy knows that i still like him but i think the next time i talk to him i'm gonna hint around about it and see what he says. but you should come up with a slick way or seeing if he likes you or a way of telling him that you like him. i believe i would tell him cause its not going to do you any good staying bottled up inside of you now is it?

Answer 3

u sound like me. i had a best friend -- he was a guy too -- and i had crushed on him just like u, n i ended up blurting out that i liked him...and a couple days later, he admited he liked me too...((which was the best thing ever;; but keep reading)) so he asked me out but i had the weirdest feeling that if i went out wit him and then we didn't anymore, things wouldn't be the same ((if u get what im saying -- going out, then breaking up)) but i took a chance, we went out for a while....i ended up breaking up wit him for some reasons ((if u wanna know the full story u can email me or something)) and we're not friends anymore. i dont think of him as i use to and i know he doesn't for me too. i took a chance on our friendship and ended up wit no friendship at all;; i dk what exactly to tell u to do, but follow ur heart;; friendships last a lifetime, but sometimes relationships don't

Answer 4

1st I think it is cool that you like you bestfriend. I think it is important to have a friendship before a relatenship. I would not tell him I would flirt with him. See if he flirts back. Just like the movies, when almost out of no were you are kissing. That is so cool and perfect. I say wait it out and flirt. Touch him, hug him, I bet he flirts back.

Answer 5

Just hope for the best that he likes you back. And even if he doesn't like you, your friendship won't be ruined, but eventually you will have to move on and find another guy.
Trust me, in your situation right now, but I'm just waiting for a good moment to ask him how I feel.

Answer 6

well since he is your bestfriend the relationship in my eyes should be no problem because he knows everything about you and you both have the key to every relationship which is trust you just need to take your time and be careful and talk to him and tell him how you really feel he's your best friend he should be able to listen to what you have to say

Answer 7

okay so you should deffinately tell him.
i told my best friend when i was in 6th grade that i liked him ( i knew him since i could walk) and we have been going out ever since, and im a senior in highschool.
if he keeps asking you about that guy, chances are he already knows its him, he just wants you to tell him so he could be sure. he probably likes you back.
: )
hope all goes well

Answer 8

Tell him the truth and get it over with you might be the right one for him. You better ask him before it gets a girlfriend

Answer 9

just tell him because maybe he thinks you like him but hes not sure, and that could be why he's telling you to tell the "guy" you like. if you're that close then obviously you have a connection with him and you should totally go with it.

good luckkk =)

Answer 10

well what i would do is always be urself and most boys want girls to tell them they like them so u should tell him and see what he feels about u be urself and just let him know that he is the one u like and that u want to be more than friends good luck together and i wish u the best!!!!!