former room-mate asked me a good question and i was not sure how to respond. could you?

Question

my old room mate (a guy who is very much like a brother to me) is living with his girlfriend in a studio apartment. like they have a great relationship and very loving too. the wierd thing is that my old room mate has thoughts about her being with other men. its not like he is jelous, its that he finds it a turn on. like he sees her working with the men at her work place (she is a female construction worker and the only woman to boot on the crew) and he says thinking about what they could be doing in one of the condos they are working on, and he says he gets aroused. th wierdest thing is, he says he has thoughts about what it would be like if his girlfriend had some other guy stay with her for a couple of weeks (them sleeping in the bed and him sleeping on the floor in front of the tv) or so. he says the thought of glancing over at them having sex or even cuddling and kissing is very hot. what should i tell him? is this a normal guy thing or is it realy weird?

Answer 1

not common, but yes there are men who love it when they watch their woman with another man... I personally am not one of these...

Answer 2

there is nothing wrong with that.....many men are aroused by seeing their wife with other men....check a few swingers couple and you will see. i would never accept it if i was married but i understand that some men would........
i have had a few "adventures" where men were turned on by me f$%^&@g their wives.
there are many website advertiing for such practices, especially on swingers websites.

Answer 3

Well to me that's weird. But hey, if that's what he likes then that's what he likes. Who are we to tell him otherwise ?

Answer 4

Thats really weird...at least to me it is.

Answer 5

Tell him he's a freak. therapy much?