I am 43 and a Christian. My problem is coveting men, going out with bad ones and being absolutely devestated when I get dumped, even though I don't really care for most of them. I want God to be first and let him choose the man but can't seem to trust him. I become almost obsessed in getting men to like me and once I do I feel disatisfied. I also smoke alot when I am dating someone, obsessing about if they are going to do me wrong, and making huge dramas out of nothing. I feel unworthy of love and am self sabatoging my happiness. I don't want to live my life alone but feel I will never find true love if I keep acting this way. Anyone been in a similar state of mind? Any help would be appreciated.
2007-08-10 14:08:59 · 1 answers · asked by Lori O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least you know what is causing these shortfalls but talking to a professional counselor will help greatly.
Sometimes you have to let things just happen. Self training is needed.
see if these sites offer any help - http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newTCS_95.htm
http://lifehacker.com/software/self-improvement/avoid-self+sabotage-199462.php
2007-08-10 18:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by B N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋