Does Penis size matter in a relationship?

Question

what are your views on this horrifying matter?
Please share your horrifying story
and on what count should the relationship be continued?

Answer 1

In a "love" relationship it does not matter at first. Once the love high comes down, things that didn't matter before starts to matter. Anybody who has been in a long term relationship knows that.

When it comes pleasure only, it does matter. Sure, knowing how to work it helps if you are small, but if you are above average size and know how to work it, them it's better.

I' going to post the results of a few Maxim Magazine survey results conducted on their 100 top finalist for the past three 3 years (300 women total). Which I think it speaks for it self. Keep in mind that these are everyday girls, the "girl next" door type. Ranging from students, housewives to nurses, secretaries; and not a bunch of porn stars. One of the questions they were asked is if size matters.

As you’ll see, more and more women are being honest about the subject. Their answers did not surprise me at all. They go hand-to-hand with my past personal experience as well as with what female friends have told me when I asked them. What I’ve realized is that women who say that it doesn’t matter, are women who have never been with a small guy so they assume; women who have never had a large one; women who don’t want to hurt guys; or women who don’t want to amid it because they don’t want people to think or talking bad of them. Most women don’t like people calling them size queens or loose.

Which brings me to another interesting subject. Why is it that so much attention is given to the male anatomy and not to the female anatomy? Women come in different sizes just like men. Women get loose as they age from the loss of muscle tone (that’s why girls, you need to keep up with pelvic floor exercises) and especially after giving birth. On the other hand, men stay the same.

Anyhow, here are their answers per year:

2004
No: 22%
Yes: 47%
Yes, but I don't generally admit it: 31%
(Total of 78% women admitted that size matters)

2005
Does size matter?
No: 27%
Yes: 40%
Yes, but I don’t generally admit it: 33%
(Total of 73% women admitted that size matters)

Does size matter?
No: 21%
Yes: 42%
Yes, but I don’t generally admit it: 37%
(Total of 79% women admitted that size matters)

Results: Out of the 300 women 76.66% think that size matters and 23.33% think that it doesn’t.

When it comes to average size, I keep hearing some where around 5 inches but the truth is other. Here are the results of some surveys and studies.

There are four studies that made news when each came out, and these have a single digit average instead of a range.

The first one is the famous Kinsey Sex Institute study. In the 1960s they asked over 3500 college males to measure themselves.
average penis length: 6 inch (15.2 cm)
average penis girth: 5 inch (12.7 cm)

Then there is the now famous Richard Edwards' Definitive Penis Size Survey Results with over 3000 participants.
average penis length: 6.3 inch (16 cm)
average penis girth: 5.1 inch (13 cm)

Another survey is the one done by Durex (just under 3000 participants):
average penis length: 6.4 inch (16.3 cm)
average penis girth: 5.2 inch (13.3 cm)

A more recent study was performed by Lifestyles Condom Co. in March 2001. They measured 300 college-aged students:
average penis length: 5.9 inch (15 cm)
average penis girth: 5 inch (12.7 cm)

In an article written by Dr. David Delvin, GP and family planning specialist and Christine Webber, psychotherapist (www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/penissize.htm), they wrote “In round figures, this means that the great majority of men measure between 15cm (6") and 18cm (7") in the erect position, with the average figure being about 16.5cm (6 ½").”

Here are also the results of a couple of studies conducted on minors. I trust the second study more than the first and I'll explain why in the conclusions. As you’ll see, the studies conducted by doctors support the results of the adult surveys.

By age, the averages found were:


FIRST STUDY (averages of measurements given by teens to a survey done by researchers)
Age....... Size
12....... 4.1" (104 mm)
13....... 5.1" (130 mm)
14....... 6.0" (152 mm)
15....... 6.1" (155 mm)
16....... 6.3" (160 mm)
17....... 6.5" (165 mm)
18....... 6.4" (163 mm)
19....... 6.2" (157 mm)
20....... 6.2" (157 mm)

Conclusions:

The average adult penis size is about 6.1 inches or (157mm). It is interesting that in this study, penis size 'peaks' at age 17. Since penises do not get smaller as a male approaches age 21, it can be concluded that boys aged 16, 17, and 18 are most likely to exaggerate the size of their penises.
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SECOND STUDY (averages of measurements taken by doctors)
Age....... **Erect Length (inches & centimeters)
11....... 3.0" (3 and 0/16ths") 7.5 cm
12....... 3.8" (3 and 13/16ths") 9.6 cm
13....... 4.8" (4 and 13/16ths") 12.3 cm
14....... 5.4" (5 and 6/16ths") 13.6 cm
15....... 5.6" (5 and 10/16ths") 14.3 cm
16....... 5.7" (5 and 11/16ths") 14.5 cm
17....... 5.8" (5 and 13/16ths") 14.8 cm
18....... 5.8" (5 and 13/16ths") 14.8 cm
19+….. 5.9" (5 and 14/16ths") 14.9 cm

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Answer 3

Penis size does matter when she is after 'act' only but not 'love' as it is in the case of sex without marriage or a rape.
In married life where the two love each other and are more after satisfaction of the spouse than satisfaction or pleasure of self, penis size, whatever doesn't matter much.

Answer 4

Yes it does matter! Sorry guys the "it's how you work it" is BS! If he has a small penis after a while it does not matter what he does you will not feel a thing and nothing is more frustrating than having sex and at the end feeling as though you better off watching your favorite show!

Answer 5

Penis size definitely matters in a relationship -- particularly if said Penis belongs to someone other than your husband/boyfriend.

Answer 6

penis size shoudl have no bearing on a relationship at all. Sure some prefer small ones and others prefer big ones but bottom line is if th eguy has at elast 2 inches, klnows how to use it effectively to provide extreme pleasure to his sex partner and keeps it clean, whether he is 3 inches of 9 doesn't make one iota of difference.

Answer 7

Well honestly, yes and no. It depends on the women their are not absolutes. When I have sex with a guy, I am in a relationship and have been for anywhere from 4.5 months or longer. So their is that emotional connection. I have not had sex w/ a guy was smaller than 5 inces so I have been more than pleased but I was in a short relationship w/ a guy who was 8.5 inches I could not bring myself to have sex with him, his penis was just too big for me. I would not have enjoyed it so I we broke it off.

Answer 8

As a guy I've struggled with this question not only from myself, but from other guys who worried if their girlfriends were getting enough "meat" from them. The U.S. average is something like 5.1 inches. So if your man is longer/larger than that, he's doing well. Most women care more about girth than they do length, so in the end it's just a personal preference for you, I mean let's face it, it's your pleasure right? If you happen to be emotionally in love with a man who comes up a little "short" in the equipment section, there are plenty of position adjustments to help with that. Besides something like 90% of the nerves in the vagina are located in the first 2-3 inches anyway, so unless women out there like having their intestines rearranged, looking for a man with a third leg isn't the best choice. Most women I know are happy with their man's tackle overall. Some say it's the size, some say it's the motion, if your man is lacking in either area, help him out, look up some positions/movements that will help with his shortcomings and suggest them as your idea to help soften the blow if it is for that reason. Just a random guys interpretation to that question. Hope it helps.

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Answer 11

Well, it really shouldn't be that big of a problem if you actually love you're boyfriend. Sex isn't everything and it certainly doesn't have anything to do with a relationship if you two really love eachother. And you always have alternatives.