At about 1 a.m my boyfriend broke up with me. He was nice anout it & he asked if we could still be friends. I was crying until about 4 in the morning, & when i woke up at about 11 i started crying again. He called me and told me he made a big mistake, he still loved me, the hours were hell without me, & that he needs me. We worked it out & we started going back out & i was happy. but i started crying a few hours after, & i just started tearing a few minutes ago? why do you think i was crying, because i have no idea why. I love him, & im glad were back together. Why ami i crying, What do you think this means.
2007-08-10 13:39:55 · 28 answers · asked by xobabybriiox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you are glad that you are working things out doesn't mean that you are not hurt over what happened. It doesn't erase the fact that he hurt you, and that devistation. It's ok to still feel sad about that and let your heart heal.
I'm glad you are working it out though, just make sure to find out why he broke it off, and encourage him to communicate with you before it get to this point in the future. It's important to learn from break ups if you stay together.
2007-08-10 13:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by chickennosenshi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could be crying because you may feel happy but you may be thinking that he thought he felt the need to break up what if he changes his mind again? I am just making a guess. You could go on with him forever. No one can really say. You should think this through. Are you angry with him? If you are not sure of your feelings then tell him either you both need to talk or you need some time away from him?
2007-08-10 20:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by winter715 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had any boyfriends yet, but I think that I can help you because of what my friends and family have gone through. You might be a little excited over this. You probably need to talk to him about this situation, and see what he really thinks. You can start and write in a journal. Get everything that you want to say down on a page. You will feel a lot better. Ask him everything that you have always wondered about.......that could help. Ask him why he broke up with you, and then wanted to go back out with you. I really think that you should talk to him about everything, and if you feel uncomfortable, just talk to your friends or family! They can really help you in this situation. If you don't want to ask them, thats okay, just try you hardest to keep close to your boyfriend! He COULD be the one FOREVER! Best of luck
2007-08-10 20:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are crying because you emotions are going every which way.
You hurt because y'all broke up, he WANTED to break up.
It hurt. You felt rejection. the future you saw for the 2 of you ( even if it was only a future of a few months) had vanished.
Then he called back, wanted to get back together. You were releived, but that is like being in a storm in an ocean. First this way, then that.
And i think you are crying now, because you have seen this can happen at any time, with no warning.
2007-08-10 20:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it means that you're still probably very shocked with him breaking up with you earlier, that it's also a big shock that you're back together so quickly. And those also may be tears of happiness, but you don't sound like it...I think that those tears are tears of stress, confusion, and a change of events happening in only a few hours.
I hope you feel better. ~isa~
2007-08-10 20:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by XD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He messed with your emotions and you don't know if you can really trust him now. Why did he break up a 1:00 in the morning? Did he do something he was feeling guilty about? Apparently you're not that happy with him. I would move on if I were you.
2007-08-10 20:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by SinSister 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
subconsciously you're still questioning why he did that and are hurt he even thought about it. It happens to everyone. and the fact that he said the few hours were hell without you was a lie. He probably has "alone time" a lot and the truth is he could live wihtout you for a while because he probably has before.
hate to break it to ya.
good luck â¥
2007-08-10 20:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Rayyhol♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes you just need a good cry. About a week or two ago, I just kept crying and I don't know why. I am and always have been completely happy with him, but I was just crying. I had no idea why.
2007-08-10 20:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it was kind of a shock to you and it takes a little time before it takes off. Usually 48 hours and you're fine again.
2007-08-10 20:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're still in shock from the break up, it will take time to get over it. Just be strong.
2007-08-10 20:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by DRIVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋