i like this boy who like me but i don't like they way i look. so i want to lose weight get happy with myself then go out with him. but do you think he will wait for me?
2007-08-10 12:10:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like girls who are secure about themselves ( im sure your beautiful the way you are) so if losing weight would make you secure then if he really likes you then he will wait, if he doesnt then thats not the kind of guy you want to be with anyway. Just make sure you lose weight in a healthy way, nothing drastic!
2007-08-10 12:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't already have a relationship with the person then the answer is most likely no. Most people live for the moment. Put yourself in the same situation. Would you wait for someone who may or may not change their ways or go with the person that makes you happy right now?
1) I say do not wait. Try going out with him now and hopefully he likes you the same way you like him. Don't wait a year to do what you can do today.
2) Even if you get in the shape you want there is no guarantee that he will go out with you. You cannot force love.
3) Do get in shape regardless. It is good for your health and your self esteem. Besides, if this guy doesn't responds today maybe someone else in the future will.
4) Remember that relationships even friendships do not work like shopping. It is not like if you want an item you save up the money and you go get it. Is a mutual agreement. A person may or may not accept you. Thats the way life is.
2007-08-10 12:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not like that because he may not know your intentions or that he's supposed to be waiting...besides, patience is not a defining quality of young boys. But if you were already on his radar he may be willing to hang in there with you through whatever you're going through, but don't sell yourself short by proposing this big self-improvement project before going out with him...chances are good he'll like you just the way you are.
2007-08-10 12:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, weight won't be an issue to him! But since you WANT to lose weight then tell him what you just typed and go talk to him once in a while, then you've got a pretty good chance!
2007-08-10 12:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mike T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes not going 2 "wait" for you unless he already likes you, he might be single when you are ready and things could work out but he wont wait and if he does its because he already likes you. if you like him now and you think he has a thing for you just go for it now, and you can lose weight or what ever while you are with him
2007-08-10 12:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by humm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, if he doesn't like you the way you are then he's not worth investing time in. sounds like you may be in a younger age group. focusing on what you think a boy needs for you to look in order to have a relationship is not healthy for you. You may be pleasantly surprised that he doesn't find weight to be an issue.
If you think you need to loose weight, do it for HEALTH issues, not for any boys what-so-ever!
good luck to you
2007-08-10 12:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to lose weight, he already likes you! Go out on that date, and look as fabulous as possible no matter how much you weigh. If you really want to lose weight, do it while you are dating him, but just go out on that date.
2007-08-10 12:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea, you might not know what he's really like but losing weight for your healthy benifit would do you great, not worthit for a guy.. A person should like you for who you are inside and out not just physical appearance, otherwise it isn't worth it.
2007-08-10 12:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by reader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you for who you are. Just change your thoughts about yourself. Lose the weight while dating him. Take that risk and go out with him. Good Luck!!!
2007-08-10 12:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by cjs_peach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much he likes you... but probably not, sorry. if he likes you now, then why wait.... he obviously doesn't care about the way you look. and you can diet and such while u are with him, b/c depending on how much weight u need to lose, it might take awhile. losing wait is not quick or easy.
2007-08-10 12:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by cari210kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋