Clubs, bars, work are not places to meet a guy, and those are the only places where im always at.
Seem like i always meet the wrong guys, of course they all JUST want SEX.
Where can i possibly meet a guy with manners and a gentleman?
2007-08-10 11:51:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well do you act like the kind of woman a good man would want??? or do you attract the kind you describe??? Talk to friends, family, your church peers, everyone knows someone who is looking for a person to fall in love with......Look at yourself first, see if you are the kind of person someone wants to love, then go from there.
By the way I met my husband online 9 years ago,, now married 7 wonderful years,,, yes they are out there.............
2007-08-10 11:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can meet a good guy; in your dreams.
I am sorry; but the fact is that this kind of guy you're looking for has ceased to come to life since the 1940s. And the only one I ever saw died in 2001. There are no more gentlemen; manners are gone. This type is rare and lucky is the woman who ends up with such a man.
By the way; if you find one of them don't be surprised to find that he is already taken.
Best of luck for you. Bye!
2007-08-10 12:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Venom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try the Internet, although a lot of the guys on here are just after sex as well you have to be careful and screen well. I met my fiancee in a chat room about 12 years ago originally, we were friends for years, then one day he came to visit me and things progressed from there. Also try joining a club for an interest you have like a book club, mountain climbing, or astronomy, having a common interest can be a good starting point.
2007-08-10 11:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Chandra W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are out there, just have to stop looking in the wrong places. Take public transportation once in a while, do a little walking or go to a fitness work out on lunch or on break, or even on a day off. Start out on a new journey for yourself, change of wardrobe, and get pampered. Once you start picking yourself up. You'll feel better, and soon you'll start attracting a different kind of guy, then start treating him like you would like to be treated. You maybe surprised at what you receive. Best wishes,
2007-08-10 12:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyedpixies2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to work with a woman who was in the same boat as you are. She learned how to ski and joined a ski club. She did volunteer work with Habitat for Humanity. She attended classes at a local college. In other words she broke out of her old habits and became more active. Now I'm not saying you should do these exact same things but find something that interests you and go for it! By the way, she met a guy at the Habitat for Humanity. they got married after a year. Good luck.
2007-08-10 11:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lostandconfused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real answere to that, just stop looking and on day that one guy you are looking for will find you. You can meet good guys are bars and clubs there just there to have fun as well, so just dont worrie so much about finding a guy just be your self untill you find the right guy.
2007-08-10 11:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mary! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're on the right path they'll find you... join up with some groups that you're interested in.. if you're religious join a church group (you'll meet some of the smartest most down to earth people including guys)... if you like music start a band... if you're into learning new languages take a night class... basically you have to strive to be the person that you'd want to date... if you're not just interested in sex then make a rule that you won't have sex again until you're married... that's what i did... and now I'm married to a smart, hot, hilarious and successful (although i don't care about money) guy... guys secretly don't want a girl to have sex with them... and if you do they consider you disposable... wait until you're married and it will be amazing!!
good luck!!
2007-08-10 12:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by danii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You usually don't meet good guys in bars and clubs because those settings don't lend themselves to nice behavior. You tend to meet nice guys in everyday situations and not places that lend themselves to wannabe playas ie) bars and clubs. You also have to think about the manner in which you're presenting yourself. If you are presenting yourself in certain ways you will attract certain men
2007-08-10 12:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by cmack45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is plenty of places you can meet a nice guy walking down the street in the mall at restraunt even in church.
when you meet them let them know what type of relationship your interested in. How you want a man that is gonna respect you and have manners and knows how to treat a lady.
2007-08-10 11:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back here in the Islands of Hawaii, I think all us guys treat women with respect that they deserve. We were raised right. We're all not looking for one thing, trust me. So you should find yourself a Hawaiian guy where I'm from in Honolulu.
2007-08-10 12:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Charley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋