I'm sexually attracted to a video game character. How do I reveal this to my girlfriend?

Question

All my life, I have been sexually attracted to one particular video game character. It's not a human, but more of a demonic-like creature. I like my girlfriend, but I don't find her sexually attractive like this one video game character. I'm so worried she's going to dump me or think I'm a loser. How do I reveal this to my girlfriend?

Answer 1

Wow uh... If you guys have a REALLY good relationship then I'd tell her, if not, that's probably something you'll wanna keep to yourself. If my boyfriend said that to me... I dunno I'd probably not talk to him for a few weeks and try to sort some things out... its just kinda creepy.

Answer 2

Lots of people have said "You're a loser" and "Don't tell her because..." when, really, they're not looking at this situation seriously.

Me, personally, if I was in your position I would tell her about it. However, before you do, I would suggest checking information about "succubus". It seems to tie in with what's going on here.

In reality, with some of these characters out there, the only real difference between them and real-life people is of them being physically on this planet. I know of quite a few fantasy characters that are undesirably attractive to some, and they could potentially be a real person.

Lastly, if your girlfriend would dump you over something like this, then obviously she's not the right one for you. After all, true love isn't partial to petty matters such as this. After all, the character is fantasy and your girlfriend is real. If she feels threatened by that, then you're in for a rough ride, as it doesn't even measure up to looking at another girl the wrong way.

Answer 3

Oh boy!!! I would advice against it. Why is it so important that she knows. More than likely it will lead to trouble. It is hard enough competing against real people let alone game character who are unrealistically proportion. I say that if you have to say something to her then drop some hints like damn or wow or yeah! when the character show up on screen. I would never say that you find the character hotter than she is.

You also have to know that a relationship is more than physical atraction and sex. Your girlfriend can provide many things that mere pixels can't. Company, love, someone for support when things go wrong etc etc. In a relationship of any kind some things may be better unsaid.

When you choose your best answer could you name the character in question?

Answer 4

You’re right, DO NOT under any circumstances reveal to your girlfriend that you are horny for a demonic non human creature on a video game because she will think you are a total loser douche bag and not only dump you, but will probably create a myspace page making fun of you and said video game demonic sl*t.

And my question back to you weird video game demonic fetish freak is, why are with someone you don’t find sexually attractive?

Answer 5

It is your choice to relate to a real female instead of a video character. You need to figure out why it is easier for you to be attracted to a non human over real flesh and blood. She should dump you if you told her. You have a choice,never play that video game again and grow up. Or break up with your girlfriend ( not telling her) and stay a immature person forever and grow old only relating to this man made non real fantasy character. I wish I knew how old you are!

Answer 6

*So you have a fantasy......that's fine.

.If it's at all possible you could ask your g/f if she would dress up as that character?.

.I don't know I mean if you tell her that for one you're not sexually attracted to her, then you tell her that you are more attracted to a video game character....odds are you won't have a real life girlfriend anymore.

......and can I ask you something, why are you dating a girl who you don't find attractive sexually?

Personally I think to spare her feelings you should just break up with her and find a girl who can accept your "fantasies" and make them a reality.

.Because if you know or you have a gut feeling that she will leave you once you tell her, then I don't think that you should be dating her. I mean think about it, you don't find her sexually appealing...she (from what you said) does not find your interests appealing.....and you already know if you were to tell her that she'd break up with you.

.Why waste your time, why not just go seek out someone who has the same interests as you and who can respect you as a person and who can handle your fantasies.?.

.Good luck.

Answer 7

Whats the female equivalent to video games? Dolls? Ok then...

I'm sexually attracted to a barbie doll. How do I reveal this to my boyfriend??
All my life, I have been sexually attracted to one particular barbie . It's a human, but more skinny and dressed in an aerobics outfit. I like my boyfriend, but I don't find him sexually attractive like this one doll. I'm so worried he'll going to dump me or think I'm a lesbian. How do I reveal this to my boyfriend?



please, dear God, don't tell her

Answer 8

I don't think there's any point in telling her really, it's not like it matters to much and she doesn't need to know because nothing's exactly going to happen, eh?
I'm attracted to video game chars all the time too, I know, call me a loser if you must, but they're so much more sexier than most guys, hehe.
Can I ask whom this sexy video game character is? ^.^<3~

Answer 9

well your never gonna get with this fantasy girl and since she wont be interferring with you and your girlfriends relationship it really doesnt matter if you tell her or not.but if u really feel the need to tell your girl then you better make it sound like a joke and not like your in love with the character so you guys can both luagh about it and move on to the next conversation instead of there being a weird ackward moment and her getting creeped out.
if shes cool then maybe u can suggest she dressup as it next halloween so you can live your fantasy out or something

Answer 10

This is one of the reasons a lot of people discourage porno, because soon reality ceases to satisfy.

Imagine if you were your girlfirend, to be told that a unreal character turns you on more than her touch- it will probably break her heart. But hearts heal.

I would highly recomend breaking up with her without mentioning the video game character.

Find someone who leaves you breathless. Find someone you don't "like" but that you love. Video game characters will never touch you like a real person can- but sometimes having unrealistic aspirations will cause you much agony. I know this from experince (not yours, but unrealistic expectations)

Answer 11

Woo-hoo! That's a doozy, son. Wow. I'm intrigued. I mean, come on. Do you think that's healthy to fixate on a video game character rather than your real-live girlfriend? Perhaps you should just dump her, fantasize about your demonic creature and stay stuck in your home without any kind of life to think of. Would that make you happy?