...is really quiet during sex.I hardly know whether he's climaxed or not and also he never talks about sex.And he gets embarrased about it really easily.But he is happy to sleep with me,he's just really quiet.Do you think he's just shy maybe? Some guys scream whilst doing it so i have been heard!
2007-08-10 11:44:40 · 13 answers · asked by Irish Princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's probaly just shy/ afraid to make sound.
even though he doesn't talk about it.. you should ask him why he doesn't make noise.
if he does climax, he obviously likes it.
and some people just don't mmake a sound at all even if its the greatest thing ever.
go to him, simply ask, don't put pressure on him, just bring it up like right after sex.
I I ALMOST FORGOT>
pay attention to his breathing. there are usually hints within that.
2007-08-10 11:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by April D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely shy. Me personally i don't think you would know anything was different than breathing changes. For some reason I haven't felt the urge to scream or moan or anything like that.
2007-08-10 11:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by chilpaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just seems like he is very shy and inexperienced.People are different and have different ways of expressing themselves.I shouldn't worry to much about it and as suggested take note of his breathing that will be a sign if he has climaxed or not.
2007-08-11 01:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn’t look to me that he is enjoying sex at all :))
Shy? Maybe.
But after few weeks he shouldn’t be so shy anymore.
We men, don’t know for sure if a woman is faking it or not, but for sure you must know if he reaches a climax or not :)
If your sex life with him started like this, I don’t even want to think how it will be in 1 year or so :)
If he is like that, then is time for you to do more in that direction, maybe he will cheer up a bit :)
2007-08-10 11:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by vallhala2007 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not all men do make a lot of noise in sex.
not many men orgasm in sex - tho many seem to think cumming is the same thing (trust me its not), its just not as important to men, that or its not experienced very often.
not all men like to talk about sex.
not all women seem to.
individualism - some do some dont
2007-08-10 11:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Andy C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you guys are young and undersaged and unprepared please stop having sex, if you're adults let me say perhaps you could tell how hoe he makes you feel. Like give him indication that he turns you one and makes you climax and how much you love him and so forth. Tell him you would love to hear how he feels.
2007-08-10 11:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg my boyfriend is the same way..i guess it does depend on their age like the first person said. if he's younger he might feel embarrassed or maybe hes simply inexperienced..my boyfriend is 17 and we've only slept with each other so i think he feels like he doesnt know what he's doing. sometimes i feel like im doing something wrong or not turning him on or something...so i will just go with what you said, he's shy.
2007-08-10 11:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to like that through shyness and in time he will be able to open up more to you.It takes time best thing is just to be patient with him.If you guys are young and were virgins when you met then you both can experiment together to see what feels good.
2007-08-11 01:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Tom D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally a man will have an orgasm during sex. he's probably so into it he has to concentrate on NOT having an orgasm.
but if it bothers you, perhaps you should talk to him about it. if he doesnt feel comfortable to talk about sex. he shouldnt be having it.
2007-08-10 11:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by act_won 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it.
Perhaps you could engage him into some sexy talk and see what happens
2007-08-10 11:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Reo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋