2007-08-10 11:10:49 · 50 answers · asked by Argo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U Guys/Girls are awesome. Thanks for your answers.
2007-08-11 03:41:15 · update #1
*WARNING: BLUNT HONEST ANSWER TO COME!!!*
1.Looks DO matter, not matter how fun you are if you look like igor NO girl will want to stare at that face or body when she is being ******. Get a nice body and if your face is ugly, a really nice stylise hair cut and colour will make it look better, think emo and gay man hair cuts.
2.Don't be a jack ***! Don't try to impress girls with how much you make or where you work, we ONLY see that as insecurity and frankly a self-abring loser.
3.Be friendy! join clubs and teams make friends and NETWORK. also..all becuase you become friends with a girl DO NOT assume you will evntually date, sometimes friends are just friends PERIOD.
4.Get out there, you are NOT going to met people and get dates by siting on the computer all day!
5.Warning don't be pushy and desperate! it is creepy and ANNOYING!!! just think in your mind that you are a catch and are happy if you get that number or not, becuase you are confident! Rejection is NOt the end of the world!
2007-08-10 11:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by bigbangtrick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen. That is a huge thing. There is no manual to dating, but ladies just want someone who will listen to them respect them, love them. Communication is huge. And trust is huge--make her know that you have integrity and that you're devoted to her. Make good on your promises and always be there for her. As for meeting someone, a smile goes a long way. Be friendly, strike up a conversation with anyone who looks interesting. Don't try to get numbers at places like bars & clubs, usually girls assume men are only looking for one thing. Just keep an open mind, love comes when you least expect it.
2007-08-10 11:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Principessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never let the girl know how inexperienced you are. Treat her like crap. Make her think you're a real "playa". Make her think you don't care about her at all. Ignore her even. I know that is counter-intuitive, but, hey, that kinda thing really seems to turn some girls on. They really dig "Bad Boys"....Guys? Am I right?
2007-08-10 11:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by lillllbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, go get this book. Called "The Game". Then get yourself a copy of Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Both available at your local book store.
And do some research online about a guy name Wayne Elise aka Juggler. Dating guru. Dish out $40 for his online book (the best and well worth the bucks).
Good luck and hope you follow up on this information and completely change your future in dating and relationships. It has for many and myself.
-Lucky
2007-08-10 11:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you like to do? If you have a certain hobby..like art..or Basketball..or working out go join up with one of those things. You will meet people who like the same things you do and hopefully a gal will come into the picture and see your having fun, enjoying yourself and will be drawn to you. Don't ever put yourself in a situation where you can't be yourself! You accentuate the positive!
2007-08-10 11:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dragonflyshan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Yourself from the start. Don't try and be something your not, eventually you have to be who you are. Now, be proud of who you are, and where your going. Treat a lady like a lady. If your looking for other than a Lady, then do all the crazy things others will tell you.
2007-08-10 11:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay off strong colognes and no strong come ons. Just have a good sense of humor and have fun with yourself and whoever you are dating. Honesty is always a key. Make sure you complement, listen, and be a complete gentlemen and all times. But most of all, do not be clingy. We dont like that at all. Good luck! I hope she knows your worth! :)
2007-08-10 11:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by vixxen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Dear;
Well, the number one rule is to be yourself because you want people to like you for who you are. Now, number two rule is to treat women with the respect we deserve, and make us feel that we are important to you.
Being romantic is a great way to catch a girls attention and to make her feel special. Do things out of the ordinary; be creative and hopelessly romantic to win her heart.
I hope it helps. Good Luck!!!
2007-08-10 15:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Scarlett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going on the internet so much and ask girls out. A lot of us are pretty shy.
And like everyone else says, dont be a jerk
2007-08-10 11:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASk girls out! There are plenty of us girls who are too shy to make a move. The more you make the better chance you have at scoring. Good luck.
2007-08-10 11:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋