This is a messy story,it begins with me dating my brothers best friend for a few years,then I catch him cheating on me so i leave him.Shortly after I run into a mutual friend of both my x and my brother,he is sweet and he understands my sorrow,he takes me home that night and holds me till i sleep,i really liked him,he really liked me but at the time my x really wanted me back and it was such a messy time.a year went by and I called this guy(that held me)and told him how i felt,he said he had no idea and the feeling is mutual but he started seeing someone,he said he wished he had known and that he thinks im the most beautiful girl alive.so here i am 9 months after that phone call still thinking of him and that night he held me,but it appears he has moved on? should I? or hope one day he comes to me?
2007-08-10 11:04:29 · 24 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you miss all the wonderful things but it apparently means he has moved on. Like he said he started seeing someone, and 9 months later, no change. You don't want to get yourself depressed waiting around for this guy forever.
2007-08-10 11:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by madeinczech 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a tricky situation. When you think about someone it is hard to stop. Don't rush into anything. I doubt you'll stop being hung up on him for a long time, so carry on with your daily life, have some fun, but don't go looking for a relationship or a guy. I don't recommend trying to break people up, but if this guy is someone you might run into, let him know you're around, if he loves you then he will break up with the girl he is seeing since it just isn't working, right? It's not fair to the girl he is dating if he loves you.
2007-08-10 11:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give him a call and let him know you're still interested in him - it's been 9 months since your first call telling him that, maybe he's not with that person anymore and then you two can start seeing each other. If he's still with that person, then I'd move on. But I'd definitely give him a call and let him know how you feel and find out if he's single now or still attached and then you can move forward in one way or another.
2007-08-10 11:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wish your freind all the happyness he deserves and probably stay single for a wile... if things didnt go well with him and his new gal , it would be a good chance.. but im not the type of person who would want to break up someones relationship... as for your cheating ex... id let him regret what he had done for a long time.. you dont need him and apparently he thought that he didnt need you @ the time.
2007-08-10 11:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow girl!!! You are really patient I dont know but it sounds like you should move on!! I dont think hes around anymore!! Just to give you a piece of mind or convince you how about you give him a call if you have anyway of reaching him, and try talking to him? But If I was you move on dont ever put your life on pause or wait around for a guy!!
2007-08-10 11:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Juliet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, I am guessting that you are done with your boy friend. That means you are free, why would you wait around for the person who may not come to you? Date people you want, if he contact you, then, you think about it. Nothing has happend now. You need to move on.
2007-08-10 11:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Pluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is messing around with his freinds sister and then cheats I don't think he has a great set of morales. Dump this guy before you are too emotionally invested in him. He's not worth it. Please move on. Believe me I am talking from experience. I didn't move on and got a bigger mess in the end.
2007-08-10 11:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by brystonmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 months?? Come on! You need to call him and tell him if you think i'm the most beautiful girl on earth why won't you go out with me and it's your last chance! If he says no... DON'T WAIT FOR HIM!
2007-08-10 11:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hasn't called you in 9 months, sounds like he is happy where he is, move on and get yourself happy, why would you wait while he is with someone else? there are plenty of guys out there that would love you. Get your self esteem in order and go find one
2007-08-10 11:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't come back to you. He's moved on, and you should too. It's not going to do any good to sit around thinking that he'll someday come back, saying that he wants you, when it is never going to happen.
2007-08-10 11:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋