I'm not the traditional black girl but these post i've been seeing about not being able to get dates because you're black or wanting to date non-black people strictly are really irrittating me. look for love not color. Mixed relationships can be wonderful i come from 2 beautiful biracial parents who told me and siblings to look for love. i have a sister who married, one engaged i'm engaged and my brothers are 2 young to dat my point love is blind ppl! black WOMEN stop degrading yourself when u say things like 'i cant get a man becuz im black you're putting negative light on black women black People! everyother race embraces their heritage why cant we do the same? (Look at nicole richie she considers herslef black if she can be as untraditionally black as she [and me as untraditionally black as i am] is and embrace her culture why cant y'all?)
2007-08-10 11:04:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is true. Everyone should embrace their racial ethnicity and go w/ the flow. If someone isn't going to date you because of the color of your skin, then you probably dont want to date them in the first place. You need to find someone that is going to treat you with respect. 50/50 if at all possible. Dont degrade yourself, just because of social aspects of the color of your skin. Hell...i'm a beaner and I Love all women, black, white, brown, yellow, green, orange, pink...whatever...i'm not racist. It mainly depends on personality and a fun-loving attitude throughout life.
2007-08-10 11:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by RudeBwoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This I do know Love don't have a color and most people know this already. If you are looking for love go out and find it and stop worrying about what people may think. As for Nicole Richie, she is Latino, not black and I can't recall ever seeing her with a black man. And I don't think it is because she don't like black men. She just around more white famous people and it is where she come from, and the set of friends she surrounds herself with. I feel when she was looking for love it found her and she did not one time think about color in the process I'm sure. By the way the last guy I dated was white, and I was not thinking about his color, he made me happy.
2007-08-10 18:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not black, but finding love regardless of color is understandable. However, you seem to have answered your own question with the strong supportive extra details you've included.
2007-08-10 18:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by hells_grannies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its unfortunate how society can attack a persons self esteem to the point that the victims do lower their expectations and brings about self doubts.
2007-08-10 18:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
911, what's your emergency? lol
woah! you have a lot of siblings!
anyway, it's not only black people who degrade themselves "I dance like a white girl" "white girls have no butt" things like that.
race issues were solved so long ago, I agree with you. people should stop discriminating already!
2007-08-10 18:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Gabbie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very well put. What is inside the person, should be more important than the outside.
2007-08-10 18:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Starting Over 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO BE MORE SPECIFIC ON EXACTLY WHO BY NAME YOU ARE EXPRESSING THAT TO.
I COME FROM A CREOLE BACKGROUND MYSELF( BLKS, WHTS) ITS NOT JUST CALLED BIRACIAL.
2007: AN RACE SHOULDNT BE IMPORTANT BUT PEOPLE WHO DONT LIKE THEMSELVES IT IS ALL THEY HAVE.
I AGREE LOVE SHOULD NO LINES: BUT THAT IS AMONGST THOSE WHO DARE TO DREAM.
2007-08-10 18:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by CEYISHA S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made a really good point there! it's truelly what's on the inside that counts the most.
2007-08-10 18:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by pepsigrlfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May God help us, he didn't want a world divided by color.
2007-08-10 18:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree
I'm an American, not a color
2007-08-10 18:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by Rawbert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋