what can i do to get back at this guy... what would really make him get mad... i trusted him with my all. my heart. my everything.. and in return i get nothing... when i say nothing, i mean nothing. i'm trying to slowly learn to get over it. but i want him to feel some pain. i want him to feel what i'm going through. what can i do to make him feel that pain?
2007-08-10 10:39:28 · 10 answers · asked by Kim Loan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kiss him babe
2007-08-10 10:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by BIANCA P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would advise against it. It is human nature to want revenge. We want some compensation. However, we don't always get what we want. The question then become how bad do we want it. A more important question is what is the price we want to pay for that satisfaction. I say just let it go. Just pretend that person never existed, don't talk to him, don't mention his name, don't do any favors. What will happen is that through seeking revenge you can taint your soul. I mean it is possible. It all depends on what the other person does and what the revenge is. The revenge can end up worst for you. For example, lets say you see the guy at a restaurant with another girl. You then decide to do a show. Well, he can explain to the other girl that you are crazy and that he was the victim and that is why he left. All in all you end up looking like a crazy person and him as the victim. Also, you may develop conpulsive revenge symdrome. Ok, I made thatn one up. WHat I mean by this is that by trying to get revenge for every wrong that people do to you you develop a sense of distrust. You no longer see another person as a good human being but as someone that will do you wrong when the moment presents. So, you live your life waiting for the person to screw up. Also, in a relationship is better to talk and try to solve problems. If on your next relationship there is a misunderstanding your urge might be to get vengeful. Not the best course of action when a simple conversation and a bit of compromise might had solved the problem. All in all I think is best to move on. Look at it this way, you are now free to look for a person that will apreciate you as opposed to spending a lifetime being miserable with someone who doesn't and will never love you. A favor in disguised.
2007-08-10 10:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge, bitterness, and anger will do nothing to heal your heart. You need to grow up, move on, and live your own life. Time does heal wounds. He's off on his own now, likely happy. Just because you're bitter and miserable doesn't mean you have to be cruel enough to make him feel the same.
2007-08-10 10:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about moving on with your life, finding the perfect guy, and being happy with him instead?
Vindictiveness isn't going to get you what you want (this guy reciprocating your love), and it isn't an attractive quality. Just move on, and the feelings will soon pass.
2007-08-10 10:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to do nething. i promise that in time this will come back on him. it may not be something u said or did, but ppl who inflict pain will recieve pain! someday someone will do the same to him and then he will reflect back to the pain he has caused others and will realize his mistakes. it might not be ne time sone, but it will happen!
2007-08-10 10:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by john m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.. you are making yourself more miserable by wasting more time on this loser than you already have..
Revenge is never the answer. Move on..
2007-08-10 10:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sleep with his gf... not joking, it will piss him off that u were capable of that and he didnt take advantage of it.. dont believe me? ask any guy
2007-08-10 10:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by antoinio i 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell everybody that he like a teacher or that he's bi
2007-08-10 10:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in his balls... joking.. why dont you spill his secrets.. something bitcchy.. no offence... kick him in his balls..
2007-08-10 10:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with other guys, dnt talk to him as much and he'll get jealous....like the saying goes "u dnt kno wat u got till its gone"
2007-08-10 10:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by kjbksjd 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋