my bf is 15 and i'm 14. me and my bf have been going out for 7 months now. we love each other to death!!! i couldn't live w/out him! my best friend keeps telling me that i should break up with him because i'd be so happier and i wouldm't be so stressed and i wouldn't have so much bullshit because she doesn'tl like the way he treats me. but she just doesn't understand our relationship. i wanna stay with him more than i wanna break up with him. i'm so confused! i don't know what to do! please help me!
2007-08-10 10:33:17 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your gf to get her own life and stay out of yours!
i mean, your 14, TRUST ME... your not going to be with this guy forever, there will be several more later before you find the one.
2007-08-10 10:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by tracy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one that's with him, not your friend. If you want to stay with him because you love him, stay with him. Don't decide to break up with him because your friend doesn't like him. If you love each other "to death", that's all that matters.
P.S. You could live without him, you just choose not to. It's totally ok.
2007-08-10 18:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by PuertoRican Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with your boyfriend is just the two of you. your friend is out of it. You and your bf knows only whats going on with your relationship. You, yourself can justify it how smooth it is and how it makes you happy. Why should you obey your friend? You can listen to her advise but you, yourself alone can decide, not her.
Try to explain to your friend that you're OK with your bf.
It's a matter of choice. You have stated that your friend didn't understand it, Why should you hurt the ones you love?
2007-08-10 17:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by she 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happend to me SAME thing.. so if i was you i'd FOLLOW my heart..not just doing your thinking. Thinking is are not right and it wont be always right. Follow Your Heart is right thing to leader your decides..If you still love him stay with him. But if you dont like the way he treated you. Tell him to stop and acting like he should treated you.
2007-08-10 17:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by lovergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what YOU want not what your friend says.. She needs to understand and accept that your happy with him and do not want to break up with him.. A true friend would be there for you no matter what.. You need to talk to her about how you feel and why you care about him so much.. Good luck!
2007-08-10 17:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him then you wont break up, but youre only 14 dont worry about it so much, but then again friends are more important than boyfriens so that is where you have to decide...i dont know you so i cant tell you what to do but... i think you should follow your heart.
2007-08-10 17:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by justin c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when girl fall in love they get really blind and ur so deep in love u might not see what people on the outside think lots of my friends have that problem and i tell them the same thing that ur best friend is telling u sorry but i think u should dump him
2007-08-10 17:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by 619*Monkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your friend take control of your love-life!!! -She's NOT your mother.
2007-08-10 17:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him then stay with him, dont worry about what your friend says... it's not her decision it's yours.
2007-08-10 17:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by *Babycakes* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋