2007-08-10 10:12:21 · 38 answers · asked by sim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to find help for your friend. this isn't something to keep quiet about.
2007-08-10 10:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by lalala 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had a very very bad experiance with that when I was in the 3rd grade. My best friend killed herself and wrote her suicide letter to ME! So of course her parents would blame me, but in the end when things cool off and they realize that you can't control other people's decisions, they will forget about it. Nobody can control anyone but themselves, it is a very hard thing to go through, and it's even worse when you have people blaming you. Don't listen to other people, if you were close enough to that friend, then you know it wasn't you, and if it was, then you just got to figure out why. It's hard, and makes you depressed, but you just have to let things cool off, you have to understand how tramatic this must be for the parents of that friend. Things will get better, I promise.
2007-08-10 10:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by pepper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide feels when the world is ending...it makes u feel like its all over, and if done with. I have felt it several times, but it takes only a minute for me to realise that life does not end here. Death is sometimes beautiful, i hate to make u feel bad, but that is the truth.
So, what did u do to make her feel that you are responsible for it ??? what are u scared of ??? Are you scared of being responsible for her death or suicide ((in which case you have brought her to this situation)) or are u scared that if she dies, emotionally it will cling on to u ?? What is your relation with your freinds suicide ?? think hard, and think strong. I am sure you have something to do with it, and ur scared that...if she does suicide....u'd be blamed...So, why are u blamed ? Did you do something wrong to her, did you hurt her in some way..or Did u not mean to hurt her and still she took it in the wrong way ??? Analyze. If you are not in teh wrong end, help her, talk to her parents and tell them that you have no role in this..and..before she does it. Suicidees usually threaten, do u know ? Not to get attention, but cos' they have gone thru something so bad, that they do not like dyiing...so they announce..its not called ''threat'' its announcing...so...take care of her, inform her parents u had no role in it. BUT. but, if u did have a role in the whole drama.....i think u need to really really have a talk with her...and perhaps analyze ur own feelings...
good luck
2007-08-10 10:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what?? If you're asking if you would be held responsible - not by anyone who has any common sense. You can't be held liable for other peoples' actions. But if you suspect that your friend will commit suicide or they told you they're planning on it you should definitely tell their parent(s) who will deal with the situation appropriately - it's not up to you. Good luck.
2007-08-10 10:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by needstoknow 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Than they just want to find someone to blame. You are an easy target of course since she was your friend. She committed suicide which means that no one is to blame she just wasn't happy I guess.
I think if anyone is to blame it should be the parents because they apparently didn't provided for their child or care for their child like they should have. Anyways it's not your fault. And i'm sorry for your loss.
2007-08-10 10:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by shhhh_j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then your friend's parents are in denial since what they have been doing since she was born has had much more impact than what you could have done.
And in most cases, suicide is not about what other people have done, but is something inside the person committing it.
2007-08-10 10:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get in touch with the suicide hotline. I believe the number is 1-800-SUICIDE. She needs help. Why would her parents' hold you responsible?
2007-08-10 10:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all go n find the reason behind ur frnd suiside n then convice ur frnds parents that u r not responsible for that......ok
2007-08-10 16:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? If your friend is talking suicide, it's a call for help. People who are suicidal don't talk about it like the weather.
TELL THEIR PARENTS! Otherwise you would be somewhat responsible for not saving her/his life!
What's worse, having your friend mad at you for a while, or having your friend buried 6 feet under!?
2007-08-10 10:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. don't even believe that you are responsible for a friend's suicide. i have a friend who is suicidal, and when i first found i out, i freaked out and thought that if i said the wrong thing, he would actualy kill himself. but then i realized that there are so many other things that went into him wanting to hurt himself. it's not your fault. if his mom does blame you, then she is in denial and wants to put the blame on someone else. not her son/daughter or herself. she is just trying to work through it, and wants to believe her son/daughter was happy and perfect, when he/she was neither.
2007-08-10 10:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who commits suicide is responsible for his/her own actions and dont let anyone tell you differently
2007-08-10 10:16:43 · answer #11 · answered by barthebear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋