just broke up with my boyfriend few hours ago , actually i shud be happy but i dont know why i'm feeling very down
2007-08-10 09:52:42 · 26 answers · asked by Truly Madly Deeply 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi.Life is not rainbows and candy.there is always going to be that dark side.And when your dark side Finlay lightens up it is broken and goes write back to sad and ugly.(P.S that ugly side is part of your heart.)and so it hurts trying to brighten up again.but Finlay your heart will heal and soon you will realised that is was a good choose .other wise why would you break up?
with luv and care,
horselover_Texas
2007-08-10 10:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by MyHorsetexas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is normal !!! dont worry!!!
when i broke up with my ex.... i really wanted to break up with him lol. i just didnt know how to tell him thats its finished...
when i did come to the conclusion. i felt really bad. i cried every night. and wanted him back. i felt lonely and sad. but at the same time i didnt want him back. you know what i mean??
a lot of confusion. you ask ur self why?
well if uve been for a while with him, u just get used to him, so when u break up with him u r going to have an other routine so u r going to miss the old routine.
or else u just feel sorry for him and at that very moment u feel stupid. buttttt if u felt that u wanted the relationship to end. dont go back. im telling you. coz once you felt that, it means there is something wrong. and that is a sign that hes not the one for you.
i hope you 'll get over it as soon as possible... you will dont worry :) it will take a few weeks and you'll be back to normal.
good luck my love
xxxx
2007-08-10 10:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you broke up with him, doesn't mean he still can't be your friend.
hang around with him and just be his friend. If you find that you still have feeling for him, go back to him. If not, leave it as friends.
If he says he still has feeling for you and you don't him, then tell him why you don't want to be together anymore and try to help him get over you. If he does and you do, get back together. It's clear isn't it.
Why did you break up with him in the first place?
If he did something to you, find a new guy and forget his cruelty.
It'd'll be ok!
You're strong
You'll get through it
Good Luck, lass ; )
2007-08-10 11:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Amnita's broken heart <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its a big change and even if you wanted the break up your relationship is still a loss. It is A OK to feel a little down. Give yourself sometime. But remember you probably did the right thing.
2007-08-10 09:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by SandH W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 11:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why shud u b happy?
haha anyways
i think u love him lot
i knw why u said dat u should b happy
bt u dont knw u cant feel it
love 4 him z going on in ur heart
try 2 feel dat
can u tell me dat why and how it breaked?
i'll jst want 2 say dat u love him
2007-08-10 14:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by vandana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time dear! we are human being not machine. To get over emotion read adventure stories, go for sight seeing with your childhood friends or visit your relative leaving far off.
listen to music sans words do some meditation and lo ! u will find yourself new and happy again. goodluck.
2007-08-11 04:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by sami s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because even though u might be happy and free, u still had feelings, and those bonds have to break too for u to move on. Those bonds break more slowly.
2007-08-11 15:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same problem as my frnd's...but in her case...she liked a guy...but he didn't like him...but she still cares for him a lot...
...u r feeling very down 'coz...u cared 4 him a lot...u made a decision in ur mind...that he is the one 4 u...all these can actually trouble u a lot...may b u shd talk 2 him again and tell its reli difficult 2 live without him
2007-08-10 21:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal
but here an example:
if u have a stone on ur extended vision
then it was removed!
u will notice that there is smthing missing
this is the same issue u will get used to it
sorry if it was a silly example!!
2007-08-10 14:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by A's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋