Okay , so im just a normal girl and a LOT of guys like me and stuff ... lots of guys like me for my personality and how my face looks / body is shaped but i have a feeling that most like me for my chest too . its really confusing but can you GUYS tell me the truth ?
2007-08-10 09:25:36 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly think the majority of men really dont pay much atention to a grils chest. We may notice it if you have really big boobs, but shortly after we really dont care about that, and we want to get to know you personality. There are really no good sized boobs out there, most people dont even care, and those who do might like smaller over larg.
So I really dont think guys will like you jsut for your chest, or even your body, and if they do then they arnt someone you want to be around.
2007-08-10 09:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hamchopp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you have a pretty face and a nice body to go along with it, then you may be attracting guys just for that reason. I personally like a nice @ss on a female. Chest size is not a factoring issue with me. Don't get me wrong, they are nice to play with and look at but give me a girl with a thick behind and I will be all over that.
2007-08-10 09:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different men have different favorite body parts they focus in on more than others on the opposite sex. But as you can see, they seem to focus in on the parts that differ from their own...the more different from their own equipment the body part is, the more fastinated by it they are; because THEY don't have one (or a set, whatever the case may be).
They focus in on the differences, because opposites attract, and the more of something you have that defines you as a woman, the sexier you are judged to be--whether it is a body part, or a personality trait.
But still, all men have different tastes; myself, I prefer smaller to medium size breasts, but find myself staring at ones too large (especially for the petite frame they may be on) to be erotically attractive to me, merely because I find them "interesting". But what is much more important in the long run, if I am lookng for a relationship that is measure in years & decades, and not hours & minutes, is ideal personality traits, and compatibility. Not ideal body parts. However, there are women I have known, that were good close friends, that I loved so much just as a good buddy, that I would have been willing to marry them, and spend the rest of my life with them, as long as I did not have to do that "sex thing" with them, because there was something about their physical looks (usually too much flesh in some way) that made them completely sexually unattractive to me. So it DOES play a part--how someone looks to you, but it is far from the most important thing; and if it is--in any given case-- the relationship is very shallow, and headed for disaster eventually.
Just be cool with your body the way it is, and be glad so many guys are too--just don't read too much into where their eyes land.
2007-08-10 09:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Howie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy, yes it is very appealing but I personally like a girl with not too much of that, other typical turn ons are eyes, hair, and bottom, oh yeah especially for me(A GREAT SMILE). However, alot of good guys are not as shallow and prefer good character over everything else, be yourself. But in conclusion a majority of guys would find your torso appealing, about 1/10 of em would wanna go out just for that reason though. Guys are shallow but most dont like u 4 that reason.
2007-08-10 09:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dhoopy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im going to be totally honest, I love boobs. but that isnt the only thing i like in a girl. well they are out there so alot of guys will look, some will take a glance and others will drool. i take a glance at them from time to time. enjoy the fact that they get looked at.
2007-08-10 09:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gurlie not all guys r like that but heres the test: if ur talkin 2 sum guy n he's not lookin @ ur face n starts talkin towards ur boobs then yah his an a s s! cuz i go through the same thing plus I hve an a s s. dnt dwngrade urself though if u kno u look good it's fun 2 show it off 4 fun. lol
2007-08-10 09:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by *hayn/filipina* 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Most guys like a girl for their chest. My cuzin is flat chested, but is really cute, but almost no one likes her, cuz of that. Most guys are pervs, so zip up ur shirt, and dont let those pervs touch 'em!
2007-08-10 09:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Meh. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that doesn't make sense, cause 1 guy likes me, and i got a big chest, and im not being braggy i do and i dont like it very much. im skinny and busty, and 1 guy likes me. my sis is chubby and has NO chest, and yet all the guys are all over her. maybe that explains something. maybe chest isnt all that matters. but it makes me sad, makes me feel like no one likes me and no one will ever like me, no matter what i do :(
2007-08-10 09:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Speed, I Am Speed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can look like a beauty queen on the outside but be a total bwitch on the inside.
It is on the inside that counts!
2007-08-10 09:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wonder the same thing. is he really into me for my personality or my bra size. a way to tell is if he's looking at your chest the enitre time. i mean if he is then he's probably only interested in your boobs. but if he makes full eye contact when you talk to him and he really listens then he's more interested in you than your chest
2007-08-10 09:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by kc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋