Like, this one girl. I don't even know her or everything she sent my boyfriend a friend request on myspace, So then all of a sudden she sends all these "blinky shiny, glitterly" msgs like it was love a first site, and like everyone loves an me and stuff. And im getting really mad at her because she lives states away. And she still keeps trying to get my boyfriend, what should i do?
2007-08-10 09:01:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ps. I think he's getting to friendly with her because he sends her back the stupid sparkly thingies and it really gets me annoyed that he does that like some of you said maybe he's encouraging her, and plus shes effin ugly too! :P
2007-08-10 09:21:35 · update #1
Well it isn't her responsibility to respect you it is your boyfriends responsibility. As your boyfriend he has the responsibility to delete her off of his friends list. Because that would piss me off also. Why is he befriending people states away anyway, why is that necessary. How positive are you that he has told her he has a girlfriend. Ultimately like I said though it is up to him to solve this problem by eliminating the possibility of these comments, but then again she can send him e-mails without being his friend, just not comments. You need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart and let him know how this really makes you feel. Good Luck!
2007-08-10 09:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by jennqt341 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute. What exactly has your boyfriend done to prevent her from doing this? I'd bet my savings account (all $27 of it!) that you are getting mad at the wrong person. If your boyfriend blocks this girl, tells her to screw off, ignores her emails and messages, and does not give her the time of day... she'll stop. I'm willing to bet if she is doing this that he is encouraging her.... but of course, I have no way of knowing this. You do.
So here is the important question: do you trust your boyfriend? If you do, then you are worrying over nothing. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. If you trust him, he should ignore her, and she'll go away. It is as simple as that. If you DON'T trust him, then the problem is NOT the girl. It is you and your boyfriend. If that is the case, then you need to sit down and have a serious discussion with him about your future together. Find out where he stands and do what you have to do!
Good luck!
2007-08-10 09:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly hun, For one.... It's Myspace. For two she is miles away. Now, this does not mean her crazy *** won't travel over here, but I mean lets be serious? - Okay I think that your angry with the wrong person. I think you should be asking your boyfriend why he accepted the request in the first place. As far as I am concerned the girl is not the one at fault....... Your man could have Declined!
2007-08-10 09:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by JustaThought 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an internet site, get over it. Obviously you are a little insecure and you need to get over that too. Just talk to your boyfriend and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable. If he respects that he will delete the stuff. But either way, like you said she is states away so its not like they are going to be together.. (I'm assuming you guys are young and can't drive? )
2007-08-10 09:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not your problem. Your boyfriend is. He is obviously encouraging her in some way. If he ignored her messages, eventually she would stop. I don't think your relationship should really be threatened by some chick on Myspace.
2007-08-10 09:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell your boyfriend that it really bothers you and if he truely loves you he'd put a stop to it. If he doesnt dump him because he obviously doesnt know the real meaning of love. Just dont worry about it and she's states away she isnt gonna get your boyfriend.
2007-08-10 09:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by &&tissues;; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think you should put enough trust in you BF to not cheat on you if he strays then it was good that you found out early. OR. if all else fails you can call her up and curse her off and tell her stay away from your man.
2007-08-10 09:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by sunny17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt worry about it too much becuase she is states away but you have to trust your man. if you dont than thats another problem in itself. Thats why i hate myspace when you are with someone cause it causes problems. see if he sends her comments on her page. and if you even want get his password and look at his inbox. up to you how far you want to go. good luck
2007-08-10 09:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro send her a message saying
stop being so ***** pathetic trying to get my bf when u dont even have the ***** brains to see that hes mine and that youll never be with him as long as i am alive b6tch!
so if you sont delet him i will send you so manu viruses youll forget whats a myspace
if that doesnt work just tell ur bf to delet her cuz it pisses u off if he refuses then u got real problems gurl
2007-08-10 09:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf it bugs you and tell him to delete her. But I really doubt she is tyring to get with him if she lives states away. She probably has tons of guys she myspace flirts with. I wouldn't worry about it. But if you can't stand it tell him to delete her.
2007-08-10 09:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by SandH W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋