i am an attractive male, and in good shape, this cute women just hired me for this job, she has been VERY VERY FLIRTY from the beginning. she has said things like your my guy, that i seem really confident, she will walk me out, when i meet with her, gives me nice big smiles. (kind of weird) so the other day the district manager called me and said that out of all the applicants, some with more experiance then me, said that she has picked me for the job, she will be my supervisor so we will work together all the time. she also dresses very provocative, cleaveage showing etc...i would just like some thoughts on what i wrote?? and maybe what you think im in store for with her???
2007-08-10 08:48:04 · 12 answers · asked by loudiesel30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're in for a good time, that's what!
2007-08-10 08:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by hello reality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you should do,obviously she wants to have sex with you. Consider how much you like the job,if your not that crazy about your job and finding another wouldn't be a problem then give her what she wants and more. First you make some demands, like more money(much more) and that you don't want any Bullshit** from this office affair and most important she is technically your boss but after sex has happened let her know that between the 2 of you you call the shots and not her. Now one of two things will happen, she will leave you alone altogether or fire you in that case make sure someone else knows about the situation so you can sue the company for sexual harassment!!!
2007-08-10 16:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by BassDR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can understand where your coming from. Obviously, she does not know her limits and well its only going to get worst. If you think that this Job is more important then pleasure then I think that it is very important that you make it clear to her that you do not mix business with pleasure. Honestly, If you think its really weird or bad now imagine if you wait until later to tell her that you don't "mess" with co-workers or even worse supervisors. Your job may very well be on the line later on. Its best that you tell her now. Not saying anything can be like leading her on. AND THATS the LAST thing you want to do right? - Alrighty I hope I helped you Mr. Handsome! - Take care!
2007-08-10 16:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by JustaThought 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you can't be missing ALL the "red flags" of this situation as a warmed blooded young man, now can you?
She's wants you...as in maybe for a few nights or maybe forever...I'd be worried, were I you, about the caliber of her character (or possibly, lack there of...) If you mess with her, be prepared to lose the job, one way or another -on the other hand, you may lose it ANYWAY if you don't dance to her tune.
Clearly, this is NOT a professional situation - and you could conceivably nail her on harassment at some point.
Grace
2007-08-10 15:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you want the job, i say go for it. It doesnt' sound like you have a problem if she did want to pursue anything. So why not have your cake and eat it too? maybe it's her way of being and u're not the only one receiving that treatment from her. Or maybe she does find you attractive and is looking to pursue that as well. I say go for it....
2007-08-10 15:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like she wants you. Now you have to make the call on how you feel. If you aren't into her then make that clear right away. And if you loose your job you can sue her for sexual harrasment. Or you can get with the boss. It sounds like you have to make the call on this one about how you feel.
2007-08-10 15:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by SandH W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all.........
my frnd make urself clear wat do u actually want ......want to play a little with this lady and let her tell u a story to take u to bed........
if yes then i should tell u she is already impressed by u
u dont have to do much just be with her and u r in within a few days........
but now if no...........as may be others will say change the job...............i wont suggest u tht.............wat is the difference ......does it matter to u tht she is ur supervisor.......... cmon buddy be a man show her have guts show her ur personality when u feel tht she is trying to be close to u then just tell her tht u dont like tht stufff.................
its only one's way of thinking tht carries one personality....
how could u be like this ???????
2007-08-10 16:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Roger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play on playa! Play on.
If you're not committed to anyone, enjoy the possibilities of what could happen
2007-08-10 16:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by PLATINUM_PLUS1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're eye candy bro. Do a good job and stay out of her "way". Just do your job and don't get involved.
2007-08-10 15:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows! be careful though it is someone at work it could blow up in your face. But not in a good way LOL!
2007-08-10 16:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋