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Ive been living at my moms house for the past 2 months with my 16 month old daughter. My little 6 year old brother is such a brat! Hes always screaming & crying. No matter wat anyone does, he does not listen. He screams at the top of his lungs all the time! Its so loud. My 1 year old is usually around him when he screams. Hes not directly in her ear but hes sometimes couple of feet away. He screams like crazy a few times a day. Will this be harmful to my babys ears?!? I dont know what to do since he doesnt listen.

2007-08-10 08:26:46 · 10 answers · asked by blueberry muffins 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

Everyone hits him & takes away his food. They yell at him but the more we do it the louder he screams! My mom is usually busy so thats why he act that way.

2007-08-11 07:58:01 · update #1

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Loud noise is damaging to anybody's ears, but your brother isn't loud enough. Your toddler (and everyone else) will be fine. Depending on your relationship with your mom and your brother, I'd say that he needs some discipline. He needs to be told that he cannot scream in the house, that he needs to be respectful to others, and you or your mom (or both) need to be consistent with your rules and punishment.

2007-08-10 08:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by not too creative 7 · 1 0

There are several things going on here. First the screaming is extremely unpleasant for everyone in the area of it. Second I don't think it will hurt the baby unless it is VERY close to her ears. Third it sounds as it there is a serious supervision problem concerning this child which well could have lead to "Forth' a serious behavior problem by the child. You should not take food away as a form of discipline for normal kid behavior. Its a very bad thing to do and will lead to Children's Services at your front door? You should take away his toys, and or place the child in time out (use 1 minute for each year old). Tell the child what they did wrong as you send them to time out and when you let the child up from time out have them tell you why they got put in time out. Also have the child apologize upon leaving time out to the offend person. Back to the little baby...watching the older child behave in this way will only teach the baby to behave in this same way. Some of the problem is with the people who are supervising the older child. This is the best I do based on what you offered for information. Good Luck.

2007-08-17 08:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by mchlw43 3 · 0 0

I really don't know if it will damage your baby's hearing, but it can't be very pleasant for her to be around and she may pick up the habit. Yelling at a kid for yelling isn't going to teach him not to yell. Neither will hitting him or taking away his food. If you can get the cooperation of your parents, I would try this. Explain to him when he's calm and not crying that when he does cry, he needs to do it in his room with the door shut. He probably won't go there himself. Somebody will have to pick him up and take him there, and maybe even hold the door shut, until he quits screaming. I've done this with my kids when they start to get in the habit of screaming a lot and it really seems to help. You have to have all of the adults in the house willing to cooperate though. Or at least not interfere when you put him in his room. Good luck.

2007-08-16 16:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanie P 2 · 0 0

I would certainly be concerned. Try talking to him when he is calm, and tell him that screaming can hurt the baby. It sounds like he would do better if he got some attention for being good - if kids don't get that, they will try to get attention by being bad. But kids, like all of us, would rather get attention for being good!
The more you give him positive attention, the less he will need to scream. If he screams, take the baby away, maybe to another room or outside, and try to ignore him. When he is calm, praise him, play with him, help him learn that life is better when he doesn't scream! Everyone learns better by praise than by punishment. You could make all the difference in his life, especially if your mom doesn't pay attention to him.
Your first concern needs to be for your baby, but your brother sounds like he needs your help.
Good luck, mama.

2007-08-17 08:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Shaz 2 · 0 0

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2016-10-09 22:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i'd say your 6 y.o. brother needs a good old fashioned spanking.

if you don't believe in that, he needs some sort of discipline. if you think he's bad now, wait til he gets older! and for your sake, i'd get out of that house asap! not only is that incredibly annoying and disrupting, you don't want your daughter picking up his naughty tendencies.

2007-08-10 08:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 2 · 0 0

Yes, I think it could be. My husband has lost some of his hearing in the upper registers because of toddlers.

2007-08-10 08:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by pennypincher 7 · 0 0

yes it would be harmful to anyones ears,and your baby would probably pick up this behavior as well,so you should talk to your mother about this.

2007-08-10 10:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by iNeedhelp 4 · 0 0

please have patience. sometimes you have to ignore the behavior by walking away from him. he knows if he's got attention he will keep at it to get on your nerves. but if no ones around then maybe he'll gradually stop.

2007-08-15 14:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

MOVE OUT BEFORE YOUR CHILD GOES DEAF!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-10 08:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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