A guy asked out my gf right in front of me and gf said yes. I wont speak to her and she doesnt know why. can anyone explain this???
2007-08-10 06:38:05 · 37 answers · asked by § Elijah § 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea its weird and disrespectful. I would just stay away from both of them.
2007-08-10 06:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie G 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you either have a ***** of a girlfriend or you have a ***** of a girlfriend, thats terrible mate, i take it this other guy was bigger or looked tougher than you as i would have told him hes treading on thin ice and needs to leave before turning to your girlfriend and telling her that thats it, over, no more me and you. May seem drastic but do you want to be with someone who will accept invitations from men when she is stood right next to you, imagine what shes like when shes not?!!! If she cant understand why you wont talk to her then you def need to get rid, even if she says it was a mistake and she did it to make you jealous or some **** then tell her to go away, no-one should have to be witness to something as degrading as that, shows no respect whatsoever for you and you def deserve better than that. (Unless you are a complete dick, which im guessing you are not)
2007-08-10 06:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt know why? i wouldnt take that at face value. Maybe she is just saying that because she wants you to get jealous and the whole thing was a thing to set you up. Sorry we are like that sometimes.
If not maybe 'out' doesnt mean on a date... but nevertheless she is doing somethign to get your attention as she would be very aware that you were there when the guy asked her out.
2007-08-10 06:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by HuLiEn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF?!?!?! was your girlfriend thinking. Did she forget you were right there too? I say you tell her why your upset since she can't figure it out on her own. This is what makes me mad about relationships, when the other partner gives attention to another person that is not there partner. I understand the whole friend part but you have to draw the line somewhere before they do it again or go find someone else who is willing to be with you and only you. (Sorry I have the same issue. I am taking my own advise this time.) I hope this helps. E-mail me and i can explain better. TTYL
2007-08-10 06:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she's not your gf or she would have said no and let the guy know that you were her bf. She has no repsect for you and I wouldn't even go out with her anymore if thats how she treats you, if I were you. Tell her to ask her new date why your not speaking to her and to lose your phone number.
2007-08-10 06:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh. That's odd. First off, tell her why...maybe she THINKS it's just a "hanging out" kind of thing or something and doesn't realize how it looked. If after that she still doesn't get it, then that's just wrong of her...ask her if she would rather date that other guy, because you were under the impression that your relationship was mutually exclusive. (No dating other people.)
That's weird....I sure hope she was just being "blonde" and didn't realize what was really going on, or how it looked.
2007-08-10 06:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing there has been no discussions of monogamy or exclusivity. No contracts, commitments or promises.
Communication is usually the root problem with all relationships. You assumed and obviously you assumed wrong ... she ain't your steady.
How do you handle this ... you dig yourself deeper into the hole by stop communicating with her all together. Way to go.
Talk to her. Tell her you thought you were a couple and apologize for not FREAKING COMMUNICATING! Send her flowers.
2007-08-10 06:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long were you dating? Apparently not long enough for her to consider you an exclusive couple.
Ask her flat out what that was all about. Maybe she's just not into you. Maybe you misunderstood what that exchange was about or maybe you are making more out of your relationship with her than is really there. Either way, if you're not ok with it, it's time for you to move on.
2007-08-10 06:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Cat375 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Maybe it's a misunderstanding. Be calm so her reaction will be more true instead of defensive. It does seem wierd and you deserve to know what's going on.
I'll hope for the best for you.
2007-08-10 06:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by ollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be concerned with what the guy did but your girlfriend was out of her mind. Explain this: why would you even want to have her for a girlfriend? You've got to be able to do better !
2007-08-10 06:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, what the fucI< is wrong with you?. What did you do when that happened? Just stand there? This girl must not have been your girlfriend, or she wasn't as serious as you were about the relationship. Tell her, if she goes out with this cat, she can stay with him.
2007-08-10 06:42:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋