Do you have to write a note if you thank someone in person for a gift?

Answer 1

It depends what your relationship is, how elaborate the gift is and what the occasion is. Could you give more info? I'm inclined to say a note is always appropriate, but if it's a family member who gave you a teddy bear, I don't think you need to go to the trouble. (Otherwise, YES!)

Answer 2

Here is the actual answer:

If the gift was from "out of the blue," just something from one friend to another, then you may send a note or call; but if you call, call RIGHT AWAY with great enthusiasm and excitement.

If the gift was for an "occasion," such as your birthday or a religious holiday, then you may thank in person IF and ONLY IF you've made a personal visit for the purpose of saying "thank you." But just running into someone on the street accidentally and THEN thanking them won't cut it because there was no effort of your part. And a phone call? Nope.

Answer 3

Generally, the reason you send thank you notes is because you are taking a special effort to show the gift-giver that you appreciated the gift. Another practical reason for a note is because if you only say thank you in person, the giver may forget that you thanked them. Sending a card makes sure that your appreciation is shown, and no one feels slighted because of mis-communication. Always send a card.

Answer 4

If it's something small, like a candycane at the Holidays, then no, a thank you is enough. However, when I'm given gifts on my birthday, I say thank you, as well as write notes. I agree with the answer givin above though, it depends if it came unexpectedly or not.

Answer 5

It's always a nice gesture. Especially if the person isn't an immediate family member, or someone you see frequently. I send my grandparents thank-you cards even after I thank them in person, and they love it--I usually get a call about what a sweet boy I am. Look at this way--It's not WRONG to send a thank-you card, so you can't lose if you do.

Answer 6

I believe the parents should teach their children to write thank you notes. My mother always told me to do it whenever my grandmother or long distance relatives (all of them are live in another country) to write a letter or anything to say thank you and give updates of my current life. I have to admit, at times I got really lazy and didn't do it. Just reading your story makes me feel guilty. I remember once my grandma complained to me that I should write a letter to say hello. Maybe you should tell your grandchildren that you would like a letter/email from them how they enjoy the gift or anything what's happening in their lives. I would definitely teach it to my children.

Answer 7

After thanking the gift-giver in person, I usually (sms) or (email) to over-stress the thank you.

Answer 8

Yes, words are cheap, but a note represents action and sincerity.

Answer 9

yes I would notes are so thoughtful

Answer 10

Yeah, thats a good idea.