why am i suffering so much?

Question

since i was born i have suffered terribly and still do.

is that the only reason why i was born, to suffer and die?

life makes no sense to me

Answer 1

i don't know how to help you.

Answer 2

this may seem crazy but be thankful for your suffering. I don't mean to be a masochist but understand that suffering has a very good purpose. It shows us that we are in error. It takes a long time to understand how life really works, and how all the craziness that you see in people makes sense form a larger point of view. Not that craziness is good or right, but there is a reason why people do what they do. And a result that they get from their various actions. And mostly, people's result is suffering. If you learn to understand then you will look at your action when you suffer and analyze it to see where it was in error and adjust that action until it gives you a pleasant result. If you do this with all of your actions, including your thoughts, eventually and with a great deal of practice, your life will consistently improve.

Answer 3

All suffer although you don't mention the nature of your problems. Most of the time, if you look at the situations, it could be that someone has made poor choices and are reaping the consequences. Sometimes things just happen and it is a learning experience for people to grow from. You can either be a victim or you can really look at yourself and learn how to change things.

Answer 4

How are you suffering? Is it something that can be alleviated, or are you just in a "slump" at this time and seeing all the stuff in your past?

You were born for a purpose. Only God can tell you what that purpose is. Here's one way to figure it out, though - what is the one thing in life that truely makes your heart soar?

Answer 5

I am sure the religious folk will say this is gods hand for you, this is what he wants and you will be rewarded in heaven.

personally I think you need to look for the life now not the after life. Stop these terrible things happening to you by standing up for yourself.

Good luck

Answer 6

well what are you sufering from? i mean life isn't an open book, your going to have to go through every chapter; every page. Sometimes we hit bumps and it seems like our whole life is one big mess. You really have to see through all the Heartaches, tears, pain and see the good thats already happened in it. I've always tried to see life for the good instead of the bad... always try to put things in a perspective that wouldn't let my hope crumble. Life isn't supposed to make sense, it's a giant boardgame or videogame; we have to gamble chances take leaps, struggle and fight till we reach goals....

Answer 7

Absolute randomness. I'm sorry for your suffering, just try to find peace and enjoy your life as much as humanly possible. Don't fall into the trap of god chose you to suffer, or it's just god's will, or god works in mysterious ways...that makes no sense, does it?

Answer 8

This is all your mind make for you , and you accepted , Now change your mind and say to your self I will not suffering any more and repaid that to your self every day ,soon you,ll see you will lost this feel and even you'll not member what was suffering like.

Answer 9

*Drink*
Life doesn't make sense to anyone, Hun. Do you think we have perfect lives? Not even three weeks ago I was in foster care. How super dandy do you think my life is? Life sucks. For everyone. Make what you can with it. That's the point. Be optimistic and happy. Take meds, if necessary.

Answer 10

Suffering is a part of life, but not the
purpose of life :0)
Circumstances can't always
tell you Who you are!
Be of good cheer and thankful
for the small things, stay away
from bitterness and you can
be blessed!
Peace to you!

Answer 11

Life is unpredictable. Full of ups and downs. Everyone suffers. Fortunately, we can found true happiness within.

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