my boyfriend treats me wonderfully everyday etc...however the other day, he said another womans name in bed....and it was my aunts name! (i live with her and yes i know for a fact he said her name). um, how weird is this? and how do i handle it? does this mean he has a thing for my aunt or is it just some kinky fantasy? what should i do?
2007-08-10 02:26:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you ask him? Im sure he will be honest if you say he treats you right
2007-08-10 02:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥M♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is uncomfortable, I would ask him about it and see if he just said it cause he is having fantasies about your aunt or if he might be sleeping with her. Pay attention to the way they behave around each other and maybe go and talk to your aunt. I would just tell her that the other night you hear (boyfriends name) say your name in his sleep, maybe by saying he was dreaming she would come out and say something you want to hear. I'm not sure how close you are with your aunt, or if you think the two of them would be sleeping together. You need some answers and you need them know. Start talking to them both. Good luck
2007-08-10 02:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by peaches_82_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just got jumbled up in the heat of the moment. Just because he said her name doesn't mean he's attracted to her, and he most likely isn't! It's probably the fact that you live with her that he associated you with her. As long as he was able to explain himself, I'm sure there's nothing wrong. It's not really that weird at all.
2007-08-10 02:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be worried honestly. He could have just been thinking about her since you guys live with her at that moment and blurted it out. It's happened to me before and the person's name I blurted out I had no affair with or anything like that. It was just at that moment I was thinking of something and that person was involved. No sexual fantasy or any crap like that either. Stuff like that happens on accident. Now if he starts doing it alto then I would worry about it.
2007-08-10 02:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Von Freatyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is bad. A sure indication that either he is now interested in her or is sleeping with her.
Also think about the possibility that has he befriended you to reach to your aunt??
But one thing is clear its the begining of the end
2007-08-10 02:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be seeing another girl who has the same name as your aunt :(
2007-08-10 02:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by thingfishy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could make for an interesting evening. But be sure that before you enter the "mating bed" that you have chosen a name and tell her that tonight she shall be called {whatever name you want her to be} and expect her to play the part.And she can call you Cheetah.
2016-05-18 21:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by antonette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably knew a girl by the same name as your aunt.
2007-08-10 02:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well some people are good at names .....and others arent.
My mother would always run through 3 or 4 names before she got mine.....and I only have one sister!
I have only one child......but have started saying my husbands name and the cats name....before getting to my darling girls name.
In bed is a little wierd......but I think it may be just the brain giving him the wrong name.......and unfortunately your aunts name is closely connected to your name as you live together.
I think you just laugh it off........
2007-08-10 02:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by psychokitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make a huge deal out of it. I talk in my sleep, and I've been told I say some pretty interesting things about the most random people...
My favorite so far: "Scott is so pretty, but why does he smoke?"
2007-08-10 02:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Alecto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be just another woman who happens to have the same name with your aunt.
2007-08-10 02:36:12 · answer #11 · answered by abetdgreyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋