this is a really weird situation and I'm not making this up. so anyone who says i should get a life DONT ANSWER! alright so heres the deal my mom who is 44 is engaged to this 31 year old hunk! I'm 24 and I feel so attracted to him. the other night we were in the laundry room and we were hard core making out. but he stoped and said that he loved my mother to much, but if she wasnt here he'd love me to. So I really want to hook up with HIM and stop my mom from getting married because even though my mom is in loove with him she'll get over it and besides theres so many others for her. please give me advice on how to get him to fall in love with me!
2007-08-10 01:28:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the wedding is in 9 days!
2007-08-10 01:29:16 · update #1
let him be with your mother, he is a man and ergo weak, do what is right and lay off, a 44 year old woman does NOT have "many others" for her, but a 24 year old does.
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2007-08-10 01:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that your own selfishness is interfering with your own mothers happiness. I won't judge you but you are so wrong in what you are feeling and what you are doing. Your mothers bf friend is just as wrong as you are. He must not really be 'in love' with your mother if he's making out with you in the laundry room! I feel for your mother right now that her own daughter would do something like this. I'm appalled! Your ideals and views on this issue is so pathetic. That you would 'think' about your own self instead of your mothers feelings and emotions. You must really 'love' your mother huh?! You know...What Goes Around, Comes Back Around! If you are so wrapped up in your own feelings about this guy, then just tell your mom the truth for once and tell her that you and her bf was making out in the laundry room. And that 'you claim to love him' that will surely give her second thoughts on marrying this guy. You need an overhaul on a 'reality check' and what it means to love and honor your mother. You are pathetic. I'm sorry but I don't beat around the bush when it comes to truth. What you have done is immoral. Have a great day.
2007-08-10 08:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the green eyed monster has raised it's ugly head. So he is going to marry your Mum, hope you are not planning to live with them after the wedding. Time to move out my girl, and find some of the many others that you say are there for her. As for you saying, she will get over it. What a nasty piece of work you sound. Hope I am wrong and that you find someone for yourself real soon, and leave your Mum and HER man to enjoy their new life together.
2007-08-10 08:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by montysmum45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all, you said that there were plenty of other guys out there for your mom...but actually there are other guys out there for you as well. Your mom found him first, and if your willing to do that to your own family then your going to end up alone. I wouldn't let this guy come between you and your mom...its not worth it. I say get out there and find your own man and leave your mothers alone. And I think that even if you did tell your mom she prolly wouldn't believe you because love is blind. Hope that helped! Good luck
2007-08-10 08:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Shae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first and foremost, at your age, you are suppoosed to be a friend to your mom as well as a daughter. Friends dont make out with others fiance's. You need to confess all this to your mom, in front of him, since all of you are about to become family. Dont you even like or love your mom? You are being very selfish and not considerate at all concerning YOUR mom!!
2007-08-10 08:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl this is not cool!!!!!! my daughter had a boyfriend that was younger than her and way younger than me, very time she was at work he was at my back door. Yea I thaought about it, but man when you have family you have a rock, men/women come and go. If he would do this to your do you really thing he would be true to you? Give it up girl your mom means more to you than you may know now, think about what you are about to do.
2007-08-10 09:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by m c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"She''s get over it"? If she loves him, no she won't! I think this is the one situation where a mother could truly hate her daughter. Don't interfere with the wedding. You just need to get away and find a love of your own.
2007-08-10 08:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have already ruined your mom's chance to be happy. Why?? You need to be less selfish... there are soooo many men out there and you pick him. You need to move out and grow up. What you have done .. will be found out by your mom... They always find out.. And then you will realize what you are truly missing.
2007-08-10 09:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by hollie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not like what I have to say BUT I think you should choose your mother, not him. He isn't really trustworthy is he? Don't think it's only happening because it's you... he would likely do it with someone else behind your back. Tell your mother what has happened, for her sake not yours. Get rid of him!
2007-08-10 08:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by dudessday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Jerry Springer Show. They'd love to have you on.
2007-08-10 08:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋