It seems that my family members are having problem making it real big in life and i dont want that to happen to me and my children!!!!
2007-08-09 22:50:06 · 16 answers · asked by oregbee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
we are the sum total of all our decisions.
choose the decisions to get you where you want to be
2007-08-09 22:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by pestie58 the spider hunter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at what your family is doing and then make a list of the qualities that you share with them. and carefully analyze what it is that they have done to get them in there current position. Since you have multiple people to look at it should be a little easier. Once you figure out what they are all doing make sure that you don't do that as well. You might have to get advice from someone not directly involved with the family. Preferably an older person who doesn't seem to be stuck in the same rut that your family is stuck in, and it would definitely help if this person knew your family. It will not be easy to do this. You will have to work at it and it will involve you changing a lot of things about yourself, but it is possible to change your "destiny".
I personally do not believe that we have a destiny we have things that we are likely to do and become based on the kind of person we are, but nothing that is set for our future.
Good luck. You will need all the support you can get in accomplishing your goal. Asking God for help definitely wouldn't hurt.
2007-08-09 23:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't because their is no such thing as destiny or fate. You decide what happens to you.
Just...Do things differently than what your family members did. But do remember that not everyone will make it "real big in life". It has nothing to do with destiny, just some people arn't dealt good cards.
Take the cards you get and play them the best you can.
2007-08-09 22:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by Martin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your destiny will be determined by what you are doing and wishing to do from right now. For you to change your destiny you have to change what you are doing now for the better and if you feel you are doing it right then pray that you achieve your goals. Good Luck.
2007-08-09 22:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by dviakal78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can never change your destiny. You destiny is where you will be in the future if you know and understand what is destiny. But if no, consult your dictionary about the word destiny.
jtm
2007-08-09 22:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan ahead, make a life plan and set goals and how you are going to reach them. Then begin doing the deeds required of you to accomplish those goals. There will be setbacks, no doubt, but the idea is to keep on trying. Never give up. We create our own destiny in a sense. The deeds we do determine our future.
2007-08-09 22:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Swain 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don’t make things happen, things will happen to you.
If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.
If you create an act, you create a habit.
If you create a habit, you create character. If you create a character, you create a destiny.
2007-08-09 22:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Damian S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what part of the world you are in, but if the USA you have a guy there called Anthoy Robins who acts as a kind of mentor to people. If you cannot afford to buy his CD's I suggest you rent them from a library. They are fantastic. They so helped me to turn myself completely around. I am now happier, wealthier and understand myself so much better. give it a go you've nothing to lose, only to gain.
Best of luck. Lottie ///o\\\
2007-08-09 22:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by lottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is predetermined, thus, there is no destiny to change. In life, "as you lay your bed, so you lie on it."
2007-08-09 23:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Akimbo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody has a set destiny your denstiny is what you make it so work towards for what.
2007-08-09 23:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by whitetiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man is destinies child and u can be that man.U should be optistimic about the things u do and positive .
2007-08-09 23:16:21 · answer #11 · answered by king_of_lankawi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋