How can you tell if a guy REALLY cares about you. How can you tell if he is just trying to get in your pants or not?
2007-08-09 16:48:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The easiest way to tell is if he is RESPECTFUL enough NOT to push you into sex ;););)
2007-08-09 16:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something that you have to decide within your own head. Can you honestly tell me that you think all men don't care and never want just love? If so then you wouldn't be suprised to know that many women think the same. But the truth is some of us actually view sex as a gift from God for married people and want love first and foremost, someone that we can spend our lives with and even when we are 90 still have a good time with them and love them as much as day 1 of the marriage...
That is what I look for, Sex will be saved until marriage with me. I want love, and someone to cherish. Unlike my girlfriend who says that every man wants just sex and if a nice girl just happens to come along then that is great.... noooo... i want a nice girl and if sex happens to come along then great.
I don't need sex, I don't live on the thought of sex... I want the pure love that God has showed me and that God intends for us to have, and while many will either call me stupid or a liar... that is the truth...
2007-08-09 23:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well if ur in a relationship say you're not into anything more than kissing till marriage. If he stays after a month or more, it probably means something. Also you could be friends with the guy before you date them, and look at how they act around girls etc. You really won't know for sure until you're together though.
2007-08-09 23:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i really liked a girl when i was your age i always gave genuine compliments, and let her know that i cared about her. If i cared for her, i made sure she knew she was special to me by spending time alone with her and not always having to be in a crowd of friends. VERY IMPORTANT if he makes you feel bad or makes stupid sexual comments, or insinuates sexual stuff all the time...than that is what he wants
2007-08-10 11:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by countingjoel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to get in your pants hell say stuff like dame your so sexy or stair at you cleavage if he cares about you hell say that your beautiful and stunning and focus on your hands and starring in to your eyes.
2007-08-10 00:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by vincentvalentine753 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go to a bar, but only if you go to bars and have one of your friends dress sexy and have her ask him on a date and see if he takes. if he takes you have your answer.
2007-08-10 00:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Hunter147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idk you prolly can't. We were born to lie like dirty little pigs and lie we shall!
2007-08-09 23:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by AnswersIdoneedin 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋