What do you say in a reference letter about yourself?

Question

I asked someone to write one for admissions into a nursing program, and he asked that I write it and he will sign it. It feels weird boasting about myself - Plus I'm not sure these are things he would say about me.

Answer 1

Write your qualifications - schooling, GPA, caring person (important for a nursing program), and your character. Also mention your experience - even small jobs like cutting grass!*

Mention in what capacity this person knows you - as a teacher, employer, etc.

It is not uncommon for someone to ask you to write your own reference. It's less trouble for them and also they figure you cannot object to anything they say!

Seriously, you should feel flattered that this individual trusts you to this extent. They probably want to be sure they do not leave out something that is one of your significant accomplishments.


*I actually had a billion dollar corporation call me to ask what kind of worker an applicant was. The individual had just finished college and had no major work experience, but I could not believe they wanted to know how well he cut my grass! I could tell them that he had taken care of my yard for four summers, that he was very thorough and dependable, always on time, etc. They said that was just what they wanted to know. So . . . don't overlook the little things that show your character in a favorable light. You may want to look at some sites that will give you ideas for writing a recommendation:
http://www.naceweb.org/public/reference.htm
http://www.salisbury.edu/careerservices/Facstaff/WritingReferenceLetter.html
http://www.businessballs.com/referencesletterssamples.htm

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Answer 2

To Whom It May Concern:
Jonathan S. is the awesomest person in the world. He is a hard worker and will work 80 to 100 hours a week and not ask for overtime pay. He has saved countless lives as a volunteer for numerous organizations and agencies worldwide, and has an IQ that is off the charts -- like 220 or something. From what I hear, he gave Marilyn Voss Savant a run for her money. Oh, and he's handsome too. Picture included.

Best Regards,
(Name)

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