I moved and we tried the long distance thing but it didn't work out but now we're friends still but I'm still in love with him. We've both moved on and I love my new guy but I'm not IN love with him. I think my ex is in love with his new gf and he seems happy with her and that's what i want..for him to be happy even if it's not with me. I miss him soo much and I can't stop thinking about him. What should i do? I still talk to im on e-mail + myspace but I love and miss him so much. I'm always scared that somethings gonna happen to him so i won't be able to see him when i go back. I don't kow what i'd do f i couldn't see him again. i pray for him all the time for his happiness and i think that's all I can do.
2007-08-09 16:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by FML 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's in the states and I'm in Europe.
We're in highschool.
2007-08-09 16:40:31 · update #1
oh honey, i'm sorry that you have to go through something like this at our age... im only 17. It's good that you have tried to move on by dating a new boy, but you aren't letting yourself fall IN love with him like you were/are with your ex. Sure you will never love anyone else like you did him, but don't let that stop you from trying. I think that you are more in love with the memories that you have of the two of you together and miss them and don't want to let them go... so in turn you aren't letting the feelings you have for your ex go either.
It's going to be hard but trust me, in the end you will be much happier opening up to other guys the way you first opened up to your ex. Good luck girl! and message me any time if you need to talk more about it.
2007-08-10 10:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh yeah, you haven't moved on if you're still missing him alot and thinking about him. It seems that he has moved on, have you two talked about giving the long distance thing another shot? Just how far away are you two and how old?
2007-08-09 23:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Virtual Crogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Declare your love and let him make up his own mind. If the choice isn't you, don't fret honey- the heart can love many times in a lifetime.
2007-08-09 23:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him how you really feel.
If he doesn't feel the same way than at least you gave it a shot.
2007-08-09 23:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Desi. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right moment then tell him that way he won't freak out but he'll understand don't make him feel guilty but tell him how u feel that way he understands and if he feels the same way then it WILL work out
2007-08-09 23:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by gypsywoman99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep what u doing and just let it go maybe hell fall back in love with u
2007-08-09 23:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by roxy_baby2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love him so much then just tell him...
2007-08-09 23:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋