my boyfriend never tells me he loves me when we hang up. does this mean dat our relationship is gonna end or wat i need help.
2007-08-09 16:07:23 · 20 answers · asked by tired of being hurt by him 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of guys don't express how they feel so don't worry. i always say a ton more than my boyfriend but i know how much he adores me. don't over think it.
2007-08-09 16:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by ilovecoach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Dat" means you're obsessing. He's a guy, it happens. If you feel like he never says he loves you, than talk to him. If you can;t talk to your own boyfriend about your guys' own problems, then you don;t have a mature enough relationship to say you are in love.
2007-08-09 23:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Alex T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels he needs to say it to your face and not on the phone. I have been married 16 years and 9 time out of 10 my husband will not say I love you on the phone. But I know that he loves me and don't expect him to. But we say it everyday to each other. Sometimes 3 or 4 times a day to each other.
2007-08-09 23:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Wrinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.. has he EVER said I love you after any of your calls ended? And if so maybe he's just felt he does it all the time "I think you get the point now I love you why must I keep saying it".
2007-08-09 23:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just can not say those 3 words. Then you have to go by his actions. (remember that old saying, "actions speak louder than words"). If he is sweet and kind to you and respects you, does loving things to you and for you, then he loves you. Does he make you laugh? Does he try to bring you "up" when your are "down?" Then he loves you. Judge by his actions.
2007-08-09 23:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Me and my boyfriend tell each other we love each other most of the time but then there are times where we dont, but that doesnt mean we're over.
2007-08-09 23:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means either he does not love you, or he is uncomfortable expressing his emotions. If it is the latter, you may need to wait until he grows up a little. Bottom line, do not pressure him.
Don't be one of those girls that invents problems and drama.
2007-08-09 23:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what he does for the relationship all the other times you are together. Saying "I Love You" don't mean squat if they don't show it other times. They are only mere words. Action speak louder.
2007-08-09 23:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Organized Chaos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me with one of my boyfriends.
He was very shy to show me his feelings
He can just be very shy
but you can tell him you love him when your about to hang up
and If he doesn't say he loves you back
then there can be a problem.
2007-08-09 23:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Desi. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people feel love, but don't express it. Perhaps you should communicate your feelings to him, or simply say "I love you" before hanging up.
2007-08-09 23:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by pattimaris1675@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋