I am so lonely. What can I do about it?

Answer 1

You are never really alone. Turn to God. He is your best companion. Turn to books or music for inspiration. Dial your phone to say words of cheer , or visit one who is lonely. In giving we receive, our loneliness will fade away.

Answer 2

When ever I hear/see the word 'lonely' I think "a lone". What is to bad about being with yourself? You are the best person to be with! You're smart, beautiful, and lovable. So many of us fall into the trap of wanting others to affirm who we are and get disappointment in the process.

However, this can be an opportunity to use this time to work on YOU. I've discovery the best way to get out of 'self' (a lone) is to help someone else. Do something special for someone, either a family member or a stranger. Go and visit a Senior Citizen home or neighbor. Help someone and there will be two instead of one.

Answer 3

You have never bee alone actully.Look the people around you and open your eyes to learn everything in our the world.
Why didn't the greatest men coludn't stop their thinking.The greatest men try to make a better place, such as my Greatest king Pumipon of Thailand,he worked so hard to help his poor people,Albert alstien tried to find out the secret of the energy and Mahata Khnathi fought for freedom to India.Don't see yourself in your own world. Have you done anything for our the world.If you get up in the morning, please think in positive way,you will have a live ,you are very lucky. Thanks for the god that he give you a live for fighting.To plan something that you need to do in one week,cleaning your house,calling to your old friend or visiting your relatives.I think, staying alone may be a good way if you understand the power of silent.If you can not stay alone, you have to learn our the word, more listening and less talking.Our the world is only one star which have a wonderful things to learn.

Answer 4

Buy a cat or dog to keep you company. Put a pillow in your back when you go to sleep. It will feel like someone is sleeping with you. Put a lot of lights on in the house and play the TV or radio for background when you are awake. Make friends on the Internet and keep busy doing things so you don't think about your loneliness. Maybe volunteer your time helping people and you can make friends that way. Write to me and I'll write back.
You have a friend in Pennsylvania.
Rev. TomCat

Answer 5

if it's just that *live alone* kind of loneliness, get a pet.

if it's the gf/bf kind of lonely, get out and start meeting people - try those dating sites and stuff (you could find someone)

if it's just a *what is life about* kind of lonely, try actively serving others like with community service, visiting the elderly, serving food, driving people around, tutoring kids, etc.

if it's *i'm so bored* lonely, take up salsa dancing! my auntie did after my uncle died, and now she's the darned life of the party! and she can shake the groove thang...

Answer 6

People are getting nutty in the world, go hang out with a few and you'll love being lonely in a short period of time.

Dogs are nice companions

Answer 7

Get off your computer. Go to a Mall, eat in the food court, sit at a table with someone. Call or text people you know and ask them to go to a coffee house with you for some chat. Go to your library, sign up for free courses there. Enroll in a community college and take courses that interest you, hang in the student union.

Answer 8

something that will keep your mind occupied like swimming, fishing, golf, rock climbing, ten pin bowling,tennis,go to the gym , long walks,read,visit places that you have thought about going to. Go to movies, own a a pet, make a decision to meet up with people you don't get to see very often once a month. Volunteer at a charity to help out.

Answer 9

Is your hair really Grey? How old are you? Would you like to meet my Mom? She says she isn't lonely but I don't want her all alone she is 59 and has been divorced for 23 years. She is a good woman.She is a good Christian woman.

Answer 10

keep talking to us baby! you could get a lovely animal if you are that way inclined. chatrooms. volunteer work. you know what....find stuff you are interested in and go do it..have some fun and you will meet people that way and if you dont hey at least you will be having good time. email me if you want. i can chatter away for hours! guaranteed you wont be lonely lol.