A guy you meet online, have so much in common with, you go out on several dates, then get intimate. All is still good...however, you start to feel more for him, and he starts to get busier with work, his business, school, etc. How do you tell him that you feel you are loosing him without sounding possessive and jealous, and having him not loose interest?
2007-08-09 15:32:52 · 7 answers · asked by nina91672 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him you miss seeing him and that his work sucks but he has to do it regardless
2007-08-09 15:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were that guy, I think a good "talk" would be how to approach me.
However, the danger is making the talk into some sort of confrontation. Some guys hate to be pushed into a corner when it comes to why they act the way they do.
All you can do is be honest with him and ask him straight forward the questions you have. But, then you must respect his answer.
2007-08-09 22:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by collegeboy2178 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not possessive or jealous to feel that way. When asked, a real man should tell you where the relationship stands. If he can't, then it speaks volumes about him..not the concerned woman.
2007-08-09 22:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances are... if you met this guy through the internet and got intimate with him, then dont hear from him, it is more likely that he is avoiding you rather than he is busy with work etc. Dont mean to sound nasty but more often than not, that is the case. Sorry
2007-08-09 22:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Fritzybaby1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem..but my didnt end up good. We ended up breaking up. And I haven' t talked to him in a long time. You should tell him how you really feel. You wont sound possessive or jealous.
2007-08-09 22:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Steffany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this, but he's a player and just wanted to hook up with you...
2007-08-09 22:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you truly dont need to --- maybe he just needs to review his priorities and maybe he is losing interest ---- talk to him find out what his priorities are ---- best wishes
2007-08-09 22:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋