How can I stop feeling so lonely and stop dreaming about a guy to "fall in love" with?
I mean I have my studies (GCSEs) to think about and If I know how important it is then why am I still dreaming?
I know this question sounds pathetic but I couldn't think of anthoer way to put it.
2007-08-09 14:37:47 · 10 answers · asked by Pureness =) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a few things to consider . couples who are happy in there relationship live longer they gain success faster they prosper more than single people someone being there to comfort you when your feeling sad is worth more than money.
Now i will tell you a secret the harder you search for love the more it will elude you , love will find you when you least expect it .While your searching you are not yourself no one will fall for a hunter .
2007-08-09 21:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think your question is pathetic in any way ,shape ,or form. Your question and feelings reflect a truly human need and desire common to all.If there is one person who has not felt that way at some point, I will show you a liar.Having said that, I want you to know that you can not wish yourself into love, only make yourself "available" to a good person when they enter your life.In the interim, I suggest you try one or all of the following:1)talk to your current platonic friends2)cultivate some people on Yahoo Answers3)talk to those people on a regular basis to ease part of the loneliness4)be ready when a good guy comes calling.I truly hope that my ideas help some.Please keep me posted on how things are working out for you. Remember, you are important and of immense value.
2007-08-09 22:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay connected to your own core, your nature within. Do NOT pray, I tried that when I was young :) . Didn't work well. The holy Mary didn't listen - some pastor advised me to pray to Her to find me a girlfriend and advised a girl to do the same to find them a boyfriend! Try to look to boys that are not in the same study of GCSE. You could bore each other to death. And be convinced that not everyone with a sweetheart is all the time happy with this situation.
2007-08-09 22:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Robin frisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel really lonely like right now, but you know what, it's all you only you can stop that feeling not some one else, of course some one else helps, but you'll find as soon as you stop feeling sorry for yourself some one will come along to brighten your days and cure you loneliness, just remember your not the only one. I feel you
2007-08-10 04:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by rqlwlch 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone dreams about the right guy or girl to fall in love with so its very normal that ur doing the same..... you will fall in love one day...let that day come but until then u dont have to be lonely....friends are great to have and great to talk to.....especially a best friend that you can share everything with. be patient the guy u dream of will come to you one day
2007-08-09 21:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by n.m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to focus on what is important right now. Lads with be there after you have done your GCSEs. You have got plenty of time to fall in love.
2007-08-09 21:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love is great and the best feeling in the world, however when it goes wrong it makes you want to die and you really dont need all that when you are doing your GCSE's.
Concentrate on you exams and talk to your friends.
you will find love one day when the time is right:)
2007-08-10 04:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean,girl tho,like i keep getting told,it will happen one day.xx
2007-08-09 21:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mel26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have friends? coz if you do, you can go out and flirt with some guys and you'll never know!!
2007-08-10 04:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your freedom...
2007-08-09 21:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋