I haven't had a boyfriend yet and I don't think that I am attractive because of it. Any advice for me.
2007-08-09 13:29:46 · 18 answers · asked by softee93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal to feel the way you do at 14 and if you are shy that's the reason for no boys friends.Boys at that age don't have time for shy girls they want a girl who they think will go all the way with them. Sex at that age is the only thing the boys think dream and want understand so don't look at this as your looks being the cause because it isn't. And as far as your looks goes your appearance will change drastically over the next couple of years watch what i tell you.
2007-08-09 13:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry alot of people don't have a boyfriend /girlfriend by your age. Some people don't start to seriously date until they are in their early twenties. I just was on another message board (entertainment) I forgot the name and people talking about how they were 21, 24, and etc. and hadn't had a girlfriend/boyfriend yet and were going on their first date. So I thing that when the time come you will find someone. You're still young.
2007-08-09 21:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Preeminent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be positive about your looks. Be proud of who you are! You don't need to put on make up every single day because as long as you are yourself nothing can make you ugly.
It's also ok if ur shy but sometimes there's a time where you have to start being talkative. As long as you're involved in activities that you like that's no problem.
I haven't had a boyfriend because for me school comes first. Don't think that i'm a nerd. Sometimes you could be distracted cuz you're thinking about him. But it's your choice. Is it ok to have a boyfriend?
2007-08-09 20:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by ~Julia~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't think you're attractive because you don't have a boyfriend, or you don't have a boyfriend because you're not attractive?
Advice - look in the answers section, there are tons of people like you...and honestly? Very few people in this world can honestly be called ugly. It's more how you carry yourself, how confident you are, etc, than your actual looks.
A smile does wonders. :)
2007-08-09 20:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what...to the right person, you are beautiful...more beautiful to him than you could ever imagine! I think the main thing that is holding you back is your shyness. I was the same way. I was shy, very shy and I wouldn't talk to any girls. That didn't get me anywhere! So as I grew up, I realized that I had nothing to lose. So when I saw that girl...the one! I went for it and we have been together for over 4 years now. You never know unless you try...plus, what's wrong with a girl asking a guy out? NOTHING! Find someone you like, and ask them.
There is someone out there...someone who loves you for who you are...someone who would do anything for you. Just keep looking.
2007-08-09 20:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in the mirror and figure out your good and bad points, and accentuate the good and hide the bad.(Every woman does it) But if you're really shy join a sports team maybe all you need is some bravado.
2007-08-09 20:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre still young, and its isnt weird to have not had a boyfriend yet. You are also still growing, and you will come into your own unique beauty. Just dont let yourself forget youre beautiful and there will be guys that see it and want to get to know you.
2007-08-09 20:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by Hamchopp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, many people your age have never experienced a relationship yet. Just remember, you want people to like you for you, if they don't... they're liking a whole different person, so what would the point be?
"Would you rather people hate you for who you are, or like you for who you aren't?"
Your moments will come, and it'll be your turn to experience when it does :) Keep your head up!
2007-08-09 20:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by cavals07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, i feel the same way as you. i am still girlfriendless, and feel like im ugly because of it. but i just keep trying to find someone who likes me (in fact, right now i'm trying to talk to someone i kno on myspace). You are not ugly. in fact, if you look anything like your picture, i would say you look really nice. Just walk up to someone you like and try to start up a conversation.
2007-08-09 20:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my advice is that your very,very,very young and you wouldn't need a b/f except to fit in mayb. on the other hand if you think your beautiful and proud in your heart to be who you are than you must believe that every day you wake and if you put your mind body and spirit into anything it is achievable.
2007-08-09 20:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋