First let me start by saying that I've been in love, twice! The 1st was love @ first sight, we dated for 2 years and he broke my heart. The 2nd was also love @ first sight, we never really dated like boyfriend and girlfriend but we were together for 2 years also. That relationship is just now coming to an end! Both of the guys were sexy bad boys. They both turned me on with their looks and blew my mind in the bedroom. And I guess thats what Im looking for, that same feeling. But heres the problem theres a guy that likes me alot, I've known him for a couple years and he is the good guy, not bad boy @ all. He is cute but not sexy (to me) I don't get the stomach flips. But he's the kind of guy that doesn't break you heart. Should I give him a chance even though its not love @ first sight or should I stop tryin to make it something it isn't and isn't goin to be?
2007-08-09 13:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by Mj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you are saying because the relationship that I am in was not love at first sight actually when I met him He was nothing like the guys that I am attracted to. But I decided to give him a chance and we are going on a year together. He is funny and compasionate and he also is not a bad boy. Give it a try. It might be the one you are looking for and if not atleast you will know for yourself instead of wondering.
2007-08-09 13:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by hispluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that for years I was like you and was in love with some one and years after that I knew that the man i am married to now I was not in love with then but time brang us together and we are doing good with kids and every thing we could ever ask for.
2007-08-09 13:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ela J Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should give him a chance . not all will be love at first sights maybe its a good thing it wasnt after all your two past love at first sights ended... so something totally different may turn out great...
2007-08-09 13:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by tANYA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be either ----- sometimes it can be love at first sight and then you just keep falling in love with them ---- sometimes you just keepgetting closer and closer to them --- why not keep an open mind --- if the guys you have been, ill say, infatuated with have disappointed you why not try someone different --- he may be a sleeper and you find that he blows away every other guy you have dated ---- best wishes
2007-08-09 13:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try. Who knows this could be the one. Never be afraid to try something different. Maybe you could even like it better after time.
2007-08-09 13:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by bRoWn EyEd BeAuTy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isn't something you see with your eyes. its something you you feel when your with someone that makes you feel good. i think your confusing sexual attraction with love. but as far as this other guy is concerned, don't be with him for the wrong reasons IE he wont break your heart. i think part of being in love with someone is feeling that it would be worth getting your heart broken just to be with that person.
2007-08-09 13:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by booboo91379 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance..you never really know. It sounds like the past two wasn't really love but just lust.
2007-08-09 13:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deff. give him a chance. people can grow on you absolutely. why not give him a chance?? its worth the try and you might find something you never thought you could. what can you lose.
2007-08-09 13:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance but do not tell him that you love him if you don't mean it.
2007-08-09 13:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Frankie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
of course.
you expect bells and stuff when you first meet
2007-08-09 13:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by CASEYYY TAYLOR :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋