well you know boys , they get jealous .. and today i just said something about chad michael murray because i was watching one tree hill , and he goes BALISTIC, he got mad .. i called him to apologize you know and he hung up on me when i said hello. i tried you know ? and i tried apologzing one more time and he told me to F*** off. he said he couldnt hold it in any longer when i talked about channing tatum& chad michael murray the other day. he said he was jealous. But if he wanted to solve this he shouldnt have told me to F*** OFF he's being a immature jerk and he doesn't wanna talk to me. what do i do .. ?
2007-08-09 13:02:56 · 37 answers · asked by irreplaceable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE is the jerk.
No man should be afraid if their love is fond of some eye candy. My wife has three hunks she's fond off, and i am not at all bothered by it
Jealous is a control issue and this is good that this came out, so you can see what it is all about
2007-08-09 13:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being a big jerk, which I think anybody will realize. It's prefectly ok to say that chad michael murray is hott, cause DUH he is, haha but anyways I am positive he thinks some celebrity is beautiful or hott also. What you should do is give him some time, becuase right now he is acting like a 2 year old, and your just giving him attention. Lay off the calling and texting and maybe even ignore him for a little bit too. Then when you talk to him tell him that he was being a jerk, you can say CMM is hott because he's only a celebrity & it probably never will happen. Tell him you need freedom, you're not on a leash so he can't control you. If he doesn't listen to you, break up with him. He's so not worth your time. Good luck girly!
Xoxo!
2007-08-09 13:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by lalala. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off it's definitely not your fault to say your attracted to a celebrity second off yes your boyfriend is being a jerk. Celebrity are viewed as unattainable dreams and your boyfriend should view them as such. If you were talking about your neighbor or a friend I could see why he would be upset but this is a completely different siutation. Also if he's not making an effort to work it out after you apologized it's not worth it just leave him alone and eventually he'll realize hes making a big deal over nothing. If you apologize like its your fault you take the blame and make it seem like what he's doing is ok and it's not
2007-08-09 13:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is very insecure in who he is.
However, the volatile way he responded to you is a real problem if you continue to try and be his friend.
It is an unnecessarily violent response to a non-threatening question.
There are too many guys in the world who would be secure enough to know that girls can like different people for different reasons.
I would stay away from him and I hope he gets help with his issues.
Have a blessed day.
Most people do not even know that the letters of the word by definition of the dictionary mean Fornicating Under Carnal Knowledge.
2007-08-09 13:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by doodad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure the guy has thought of other good looking actresses and singers just as much as you think of chad<33
Honestly i dont think it should be as big of a deal as it is.
Maybe there is something else bothering him and that kinda gave him an excuse to show his anger. I would try again to talk to him to see whats really bothering him. If nothing else is wrong, then do you think you should really be with someone who gets ticked off that easily about something so small? let me know how it goes!
2007-08-09 13:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by lolli_pop_princez889 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he has no right telling you to f*** off. Although you said something about chad micheal murray, would you leave your boyfriend for chad? Well, i mean i think its dumb, that he gets mad at you for tlaking about a hot actor. If you get back together and he talks about a girl , you get mad at him.
2007-08-09 13:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by XerikaX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an immature jerk. But maybe you went on and on about them too much. Give him a few days to cool off. And DON'T go overboard on apologizing. Say it once, mean it, and move on. Otherwise you're stirring the pot or appear guilty.
2007-08-09 13:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have at least two options.
1. You can let it blow over and try not to let it happen again
or
2. You can sit down with him and explain how you feel.
You will need to decide if he is worth the effort and if the relationship is worth the effort. If you try and he still goes ballistic or blows up at you then you tried. That is all anyone can do. It's not like you are asking him to do something impossible. I guess his reaction will let you know what he wants. If it's you then he will calm down and be mature. If not then you will know your place with him.
2007-08-09 13:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by homeri14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be an immature jerk, but I think you enjoy the reaction you get out of him. I have an idea... Stop talking about these guys around him and see what happens!
2007-08-09 13:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by fnd40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that yes you do think other guys are still cute but they arent nothing compared to him. Try having a friend talk to him if he wont talk to you. Make sure he knows you like him
more than any of those other guys and try not to say anything more about other guys in the future.
2007-08-09 13:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by bRoWn EyEd BeAuTy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋