i just..i don't know if i should break up with my b/f...(he did something i didn't appreciate and hasn't apologized yet) people tell me to give him another chance if i still like him but i don't even know if i like him..like i kinda do and i don't wanna break his heart (because he thinks i'm breaking up with him and he was all, "i'm losing the prettiest girl in the city.")
i don't know..i'm just confused..please help me with this? should i dump him? should i give him another chance? (it's only been 8 days, sad i know but yesterday he just did something really mean to impress his friends with me)
2007-08-09 13:01:08 · 9 answers · asked by ♣swirley_gumdrops♣ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he called me outside and when i was in the middle of a sentence he grabbed me and tried to french me in front of all his friends..and i pulled away and ran off 'cuz i was embarrassed it was in front of all his friends and then he told me it was a dare
2007-08-09 13:05:20 · update #1
Well, being sorry that I am about to lose the "prettiest girl in town" isn't nearly as valuable a revelation as realizing I am about to lose the heart and mind of someone whose company I value and whose insights I respect....your boyfriend has managed to say a whole lot of nothing. I don't think you're particularly confused at all. You didn't say what he did initially to upset you, but you did indicate that he hasn't apologized and it's obvious that that upsets you further. And, you mentioned some posturing behavior in front of his friends that you also found distasteful, so (absent any other redeeming qualities) what's there to be confused about?
2007-08-09 13:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds exactly like what happened to my best friend. If you've already given him a second chance then don't let him have another. I'm guessing that what he did wasn't very good. It seems like this could turn into an abusive relationship down the road. If he was a true gentleman, he should have apologized for his wrong-doing. Conclusion: you sound like a very nice girl. I'm sure there are plenty of great guys that you will enjoy hanging out with and dating. Widen your horizon. I would dump him.
2007-08-09 20:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by NeonPinkToenails 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. If he just makes it worse and says something that isn't good then break it off. But if he apoligizes give him another chance. Good Luck!
2007-08-09 20:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by carlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i gave advice to your boyfriend 2 day(he asked a question) and he is really sorry but i told him off for you and i dont think you should worry about breaking his heart because he dosent have one!!!!!
im always there for you hope you feel better!
2007-08-09 20:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by *justalittlediffernt* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was something unforgivable that he did than don't. If you feel like he will truly change for you than give him a chance.
He should tell you honestly how he feels rather than using cheesy lines like that.
2007-08-09 20:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Istis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok give him a chance everyone deserves a 2nd chance
2007-08-09 20:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by dan a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what he did. You have to tell us so we can give the appropriate answers
2007-08-09 20:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by mkb2000bkm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!
2007-08-09 20:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by kckline2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you told us what he did, we could help.
2007-08-09 20:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋