having a mild freak out...my "perfect" spot isn't so perfect....?

Question

I'm in low panic mode...I still have time (wedding is 6/21/08) but I just found out details about my site not previously disclosed...

Originally it was to be on a large gazebo/deck overlooking the ocean...I called to find out about obtaining a generator permit (was told that was the procedure)..long story short, no power allowed, nor candles...no amplified sound of any kind....so unless we want a silent reception (not to mention the wedding march, etc)...'tis time to find a new site.

I'm at a loss...I work full time so I don't really have the freeedom to browse along too much...If I can, I'd like to avoid the $$ of a wedding planner (but may have to deal with it)

I live in Virginia Beach, Va...(beach weddings are beautiful- but we can't do a ceremony and reception there)

Answer 1

I'm so sorry this is happening for you. You are handling this extremely well and keeping things in perspective. You do have time, so something can be done - you couldhave found this out next spring - 3 cheers for advanced planning!

As much as you might want to avoid it, you will save yourself a ton of stress and grief if you bite the bullet and find yourself a very good wedding planner. If a planner does their job right, a lot, if not all of their fee will be covered just in the savings they are able to obtain for you. Their connections will be invaluable with less than a year to go. And, so you know, hiring a wedding planner can be for just parts of your wedding - it doesn't have to be full service - this may be a more affordable option for you.

If I were in VA, I would offer my services, but I am in Pennsylvania. A good resource for finding vendors is: www.gatheringguide.com Make sure you meet with perspective planners in person to make sure your personalities are a match and check references.

Best of luck with your event & a big high 5 for keeping your cool!

Answer 2

I'm sorry but don't worry. Like you said, you have plenty of time. At least you found out now. My advice is to have it at a hotel in Virginia Beach that is on the ocean. This way you will have the view and can get some pictures. It may not be as expensive as you think. Hotels provide a lot for your money.

Answer 3

For a large wedding:
http://www.grandaffairscatering.com/list.php?cid=70

For a smaller wedding:
http://www.chapelbytheseaweddings.com/

Or you could ask this officiant for suggestions:
http://www.blueridgeweddings.com/weddings/index.html

Or this one:
http://www.allyouneedtowear.com/Virginia_Beach_Weddings.htm

There are about a zillion wonderful places at "The Beach." I'd be seriously tempted to do an outdoor beach wedding, then take everyone to a wonderful restaurant for the reception. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Here are some sites I found. Have you checked out the Chapel by the Sea?

Good luck, I am sure you will find something!!

http://www.chapelbytheseaweddings.com/gallery/index.html

http://www.allyouneedtowear.com/Virginia_Beach_Weddings.htm

http://va.topweddingsites.com/

Answer 5

I know all of that is stressful, my upcoming wedding is now 18 days away. here are some links i found that may help you a bit, atleast I hope.....

http://www.blueridgeweddings.com/weddings/index.html

http://www.gatheringguide.com/event_directory/va_virginia/event_venue_2717.html

Answer 6

It's God's way of saying that he has something better in store for you!

Answer 7

call your local chamber of commerce or visitors center and ask them for suggestions..that's part of their job

Answer 8

WELL, I WOULD SUGGEST A WEDDING PLANNER