Im in a relationship and we have sex everytime we see each other. I told him that I love him so much, but I felt like SEX was taking over our relationship, and he replied with the same exact thoughts. So we are wondering if having SEX alot is a good thing or a bad thing for our relationship.
2007-08-09 12:46:26 · 25 answers · asked by Holly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think regular sex is important for a relationship - but you're definitely right. If sex is all you have in common - you're going to run into trouble there too...
2007-08-09 12:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be both.. If you only have sex with eachother but do not actually enjoy eachothers company then that could be bad due to just physical attraction.. But at the same time its a good connection.. I would suggest that if you both are thinking that its taking over your relationship I would def take a step down and slow down!! Good luck!!
2007-08-09 12:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you always capitalize the word SEX? Anyway, it can be bad. If you have ti all the time then it won't be as special when you have it. I recently went through a break up caused by too much sex. There just wasn't anything special anymore. There was nothing to look forward to.
2007-08-09 12:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by omfgska 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good relationship it's not a bad thing. But it's possible to have too much of anything. Ever heard that old saying 'everything in moderation'?
Spend some time just hanging out and talking.
2007-08-09 12:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a good thing in a relationship. But, when sex becomes the primary focus of the relationship, that's not good. Focus on other things about one another, and let the sex take care of itself.
2007-08-09 12:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be centering your entire relationship on sex. Try going out to dinner having a good time and just kissing goodnight a few times. You may find you like his company even more outside of the bedroom.
2007-08-09 15:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy Loo Hoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a bad thing but u need to put urselves in a situation where sex isnt likely an option and see how well you still get along ...sex is alot of fun but you cant keep a relationship close on sex alone
2007-08-09 12:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by brown_eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one ,You shouldn't be having sex if you are not married.
It can be a bad thing....maybe you should consider taking a break from sex, or decide that you can only have sex after a date...that way your just not having sex all the time...you are getting closer intellectually not just intimately.
2007-08-09 12:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. CT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a bad thing. If that is all you do than your relationship is just sex and nothing else.
2007-08-09 12:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how often you see each other, and if you feel that the relationship is beginning to consist of nothing but, then you can deem it as "too much", talk through it, and cut down on it.
2007-08-09 12:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by superlyrical124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋