O.K. so i'm dating this guy and i've known him for a while, but he just moved to N.C. (i'm in Illinois). He's pretty good looking and i'm worried that another girl will come along and he'll dump me. I mean i know that he says he loves me but there's just sumthing about him that makes me wonder.
And P.S. he hasn't called in 5 days and normally he calls everyday.
2007-08-09 10:00:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess i shud add that he's bipolar
2007-08-09 10:25:08 · update #1
Honestly, I sort of doubt you'll last. Long distance relationships can be really rocky, especially starting out like you're describing. Try not to worry too much about it. Have fun with your friends and stuff. Wait for him to call you. Relax! Life goes on.
2007-08-09 10:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by shoefly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would be wondering too if he hadn't called-especially if he normally calls every day. How long have you been dating?? When you live in the same town do you feel secure in your relationship or are you constantly doubting his feelings for you? There are a lot of things that you need to look at, but I also notice that you say "I know that he says he loves me" instead of I know that he loves me...that says something right there.
I think that you may need to talk to him and see what his plans are. Does he intend for you to live in the same city again? How does he think you guys will make a long distance relationship work? Is he worried that you will find someone else? Does he care?
Once you answer some of those questions you may be able to reassess your relationship. Hopefully you will be able to make things work but it is going to take a lot of communication...good luck to you!!
2007-08-09 10:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by lilprincess029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 00:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well begin the process of resuming a normal life and figure that you both will move on. Long-distance relationships seldom last. Stay close and tell him you care and hope that your circumstances might change. Let him know you still think about him from time to time and maybe things will work out. But do not promise to not date anyone else.
2007-08-09 10:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships don't last cause when you don't get to see someone very often you sort of stop missing them and look for other things that are close to you so yes he might find another girl there to keep him company...and even with the calling alot he will want romance and his needs met....so really you should break it off
2007-08-09 10:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like eventually you will grow apart, im sorry to burst your bubble honey but he might be too busy and if he doesnt have a few seconds to call you or even text you that he misses you then he probably doesnt.
2007-08-09 10:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by mayrad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long term relationships don't usually last very long unless its like true love. im sorry, but don't worry too much. maybe he just got his phone lines cut or something. try to continue and when it comes it comes.
2007-08-09 10:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by ann k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound good, but hey you could probably do better anyway. Just one piece of advice....Dont sit around waiting for him to call.
2007-08-09 10:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by enenjay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long relationships huh will they don't really last long but if it's ture love dont worry about it and maybe he's busy
2007-08-09 10:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Alexandria. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him
2007-08-09 10:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by falcon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋