question for women 21 and older?(opinion question, i will pick a random best answer)?

Question

in order to be considered for best answer, you need to answer all the questions.

first off, how old are you?

if you're looking for casual sex and not a serious relationship, which of the following would you usually be attracted to:

1. a really hot looking 18 year old with an average personality and is not very skilled in bed.

2. a really hot looking 25 year old with an average personality and is not very skilled in bed.

3. an average looking(not ugly, but not really hot) 25 year old with a really cool personality but is not very skilled in bed.

4. an average looking 35 year old with a really cool personality and is really good in bed.

which would be your second choice also?

be honest.

Answer 1

i will give my age as over 35 (fair enough right?)

i would prefer #4 - since he's the best in bed, then #3 - because maybe we could have a couple of laughs while trying to get it right!

as far as being "good in bed" everybody like different things so what turns one person on might be freaky to another person.

Answer 2

Okay I will amuse you. I am 35 and I would pick an average looking 35 year old with a really cool personality and is really good in bed. Why you ask? b/c if he is 35 he probably acts 25 and cool personality works well at any age. well if you are not good n bed who would want you. "relations" are a big part of a relationship.

second choice does not exist on your list for me ;)

Answer 3

I am 28. If only looking for a casual (sexual) relationship I would have to choose the person whom was good in bed (4) and my second choice would be the other man with good personality (3). Not very often do you know before hand which is better in bed. Thats honest!!!

Answer 4

I am 24 years old.
First choice:
3. an average looking(not ugly, but not really hot) 25 year old with a really cool personality but is not very skilled in bed.
I would fist choose someone close to my own age.

Second choice:
4. an average looking 35 year old with a really cool personality and is really good in bed.
I would then choose someone experienced.

And to be honest if they both had good personalities and we got along great then the lack of experience wouldn't matter.

Answer 5

I am 41, my first choice would be #4. Since I am just looking for casual sex then his skill level would be important. My 2nd choice would be #2, if he is 25 and really hot I guess I could take the time to teach him some skills.

Answer 6

I'm 23 - If I had to choose while looking for casual sex, I would choose #2 and then #3. 18 is too young, and I may end up having feelings for the 35 year old - which wouldn't be good if we are only in a casual relationship

Answer 7

I'm 41 and I go for slightly more mature men and I don't go for casual sex either so I'm afraid none of your options would satisfy me. Sex isn't just about performance, it's about having the confidence to be completely honest and open. It's also about being able to seduce someones mind as well as their body. That generally only comes with age and experience. As for personality, that's crucial, but even more crucial is strength of character and wisdom. Attractiveness depends on each persons perception of it. I like big chunky men with big hands and shoulders, and a rugged look rather than a pretty boy look. What some people class as good looking would be my idea of a nightmare, but he would still have to be good looking in my eyes.

Answer 8

I'm old enough to know that I am not looking for "casual sex", and would prefer a relationship. It doesn't matter how hot they look, how cool their personality, or how good they are in bed, a night with one person is not worth a lifetime of "A.I.D.S"

Answer 9

i am 25 years old
i would want the average 35 year old first
i would take the average looking 25 year old second

Answer 10

in my 30s.

number 4 (skills in bed--awesome!! cool personality=good conversations)

number 3 (good personality. What he doesn't know, he can learn, in bed, and any where else in the house! :)