I just received a dozen roses from a secret admirer, I'm clueless who sent them.
Should I tell my boyfriend about the flowers or keep it to myself?
How would a man feel knowing his woman has received flowers from a stranger?
2007-08-09 09:48:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have prefered he sent chocolate so I could eat them
2007-08-09 09:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make him VERY jealous! I would not recommend telling him. Nothing good can come from it.
However, if you decide not to tell him that would include not using it to hurt him if you have a fight.
As for the secret admirer, where did he send the roses? If he knows you at all, he knows you have a boyfriend. That would make him a untrustworthy slime! If he is just an acquaintance, then you should just be flattered but let it go.
2007-08-09 16:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know for sure they weren't sent by your boyfriend??
I say, go ahead and tell your boyfriend. There's no need for secrets. And while he might get a little jealous... in the long run, he's the one actually DATING you - not this other "secret admirer" -- so what's he got to worry about, right??
2007-08-09 16:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Eric C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is not your fault about the admire.Perhaps you're hot and the person is crazy about you.If you tell him about the roses chances are you're a going to have a lot of explanation to do.So, think about it.Try to get this person name and have a talk with the guy.Then, perhaps you're going to have another and new, boy friend.Who knows.I love situations where the intrigue is a must.
2007-08-09 17:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to tell him. It would also make it better if you told him, and that you didn't know who sent it to you, then for him to find out that someone secretly sent you flowers, cuz then he wouldn't know if you knew or not. That puts you in a bad position. So, tell him.
2007-08-09 16:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep it to myself. I would feel jealous knowing that someone sent my gf flowers. He would ask questions about you possibly flirting with someone to deserve the flowers...
2007-08-09 16:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by deflepp71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tcc said: if u love ur guy dont take them unless they r from him
Maybe my vote doesn't count, but that has my vote. Tell your guy. If they are not from him, don't make a big thing out of it. Quietly let him know that you are trashing the flowers.
2007-08-09 16:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely tell him
if he sent them and you dont acknowledge that you got them he will wonder why
never a good policy to lie
it wouldnt bother me at first , but if the person kept sending things i'd get a little nervous that the person is a stalker or something
B.
2007-08-09 16:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by ivan dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not a guy, but I do think that you should tell your boyfriend about it. If you didn't, that would seem quite suspicious!
2007-08-09 16:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by katysru19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should tell him you kow you and your boyfriend are supposed to tell the truth maybe you should tell him you know just to be on the safe side! and plus who know it could of been your boyfriend playing around just a guess but just tell him okay!
2007-08-09 16:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by chick41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋