what can I do to show my gf how much she means to me and makes me happy... to keep things this way?

Question

My gf and I been together about 23 months and my gf is completely out of this world (sometimes in weird ways but I find it cute) I don't think there is any other man as lucky as I to have such a great loving, caring and with a very sweet heart... I been very clear with her on ground rules and my acceptations from her and how I would never cheat on her and she should not cheat on me... but most of my life I been dating all the crazy bitches who can’t commit and devote to one man... living their life like wild animals and are only looking for attention from other man... I know my gf is not the type of girl guys can charm their way to her pants... we live together and work in the same bank.. She works in the front desk and my office is in the back but now and then some boys they try to get her number or something that I hear from other co-workers... but I am sure and my heart tells me she is faithful how do I just let go of my fear of her cheating on me... and how do I learn to treat her like a lady and not the same way I have treated the bitches have dated in the past

Answer 1

I think if you really care about a person, it shows. Even though you are just writing about her in here, I can tell you really like her.

You can go ahead and ask her what can you do to make her even more happy to be with you. (Sometimes there are things that I want and I would appreciate if my love one can ask me about it instead of just telling him about it.)

You can also surprise her with little presents once in a while to make some changes. (even cooking for her, writing her a card...)

If you guys are emotionally stable, get married.

Trust your instinct all the time, and learn to trust other people. I think your girlfriend already know how much you care about her. You guys are such a lucky couple.

Answer 2

Get Married.
Why are you living together?
Oh that's right, you don't Love her.
She needs to move out then.

Answer 3

marriage would be one way. Another way is to just make sure your focus is on her happiness, not yours. She will likely reciprocate. In a nutshell, serve her over yourself.