She started to accuse him because he didnt want to get her a new computer and she said it happen back when she was little she said that it was when he was teachin her how to swim he accidently grabbed her in the wrong place because his hand slipped due to the water, and she is causing some much pain to the family her mother believes my father in law there relationship is still good ,since his stepdaughter and her older sister have mind control over there mother they had himm leave the house even though its under his name.My question is what legal action can he take to clear his name.they have threathen him by saying they will take him to court and calling the police it is going on almost a year and have not taken any legal action against him all they are doing is just scarring him.If any one has any advice i will appreciated,. Thank You
2007-08-09 05:40:21 · 8 answers · asked by Pepster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You might be better of calling a lawyer for that kind of information. Your father-in-law needs to talk to his wife and put his foot down on this one. Those spoiled b*tches shouldn't be controlling the house like that.
2007-08-09 05:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by ralos2k3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your motherly instinct is telling you something (in this case, NOT to let her stay there), follow it. You are NOT wrong for feeling this way! You have to protect your daughter (as much as you can) and you have every right to not want her around this man. I would keep my child far from him. Rape and molestation are things that shouldn't happen to ANYONE. They are traumatic and life-changing. You do NOT have to forgive your stepfather or forget what he's done! Time does NOT make what he did okay, and chances are, he hasn't changed. If you're worried about your daughter not seeing your mother enough and want them to have a stronger grandmother/daughter relationship, maybe sometimes you could go out for an evening and have your mom babysit at your home and stay the night? Good luck, be strong. ::EDIT:: If your mother cannot understand your feelings towards your step-father, then she has no right to see you or your daughter. Try honestly telling her how uncomfortable it makes you feel to be there, especially with your child. Since she's a mother, too, she should understand. Your main concern is looking out for YOU, and your daughter. If your mother is unwilling to accomodate your feelings or consider your well-being, or does not believe you, you don't need her in your or your daughter's life.
2016-05-17 23:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a terrible thing, if she is lying or telling the truth. I would find it very odd that someone would make such a claim over not getting a computer. Most children who are molested block it out and remember later in life. I would not be so quick to side with him as it is better to be save then sorry. I would speak to the family and get more details as far as what they are planning on doing and if she is in counseling as if this did happen she would be in some sort of counseling not going on about her day. A certified therapist would be able to tell if she is being truth full.
2007-08-10 02:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the step daughter already PROVED HERSELF A LIAR when she said HE ACCIDENTALLY slipped and touched her in the wrong place.
which means, he did nothing on purpose.
a good "clue" that she's lying.
maybe they aren't taking any legal action because there is NO case.
take care and stop worrying... your father in law needs to deal with this.. it's HIS issue.
2007-08-09 05:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow he needs to get hiself a lawyer and those sick demonic people out. You never ever joke about this.....his hand slipped and it was a accident....that will not fly in court. He needs to seek a lawyer and take action.
2007-08-09 06:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by divers_godeeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it has been a year since this happened and he hasn't tried to do anything like defend himself about the whole situation then maybe he did do it. if they are able to scare him by just threating him then he probably is in the wrong.
Just what it sounds like to me as a third party.
2007-08-09 05:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to talk to a lawyer about what is going on.
2007-08-09 05:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by comeundone4162 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can everyone be so sure that he didn't molest her???
2007-08-10 00:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by lillulu460 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋