We are very visual creatures.I must admit though I get distracted sometimes.Some women know that men are visual creatures and dress in all sorts of ways. The majority of us are not perverts though.It is like saying look at my eyes when there is a pink elephant in the room.
2007-08-09 05:37:51
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answered by Bobby Cow 4
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What you are asking for is not impossible. I look for eyes not boobs (even though that helps with the sexual appealing part). Eyes I believe are the door way to the soul. You can see & read a lot from a person by looking into their eyes. So when I see a girl, I look at her eyes. Most emotions can be read through them. I do not always discuss the sexual parts of a female all the time. Now given I am a man so when guys get together we do discuss women rather negatively & to believe that we don't is like believing that America is still a world power. All men talk like this and vice versa for women. It's all common. When I am with a woman, I don't talk like that at all. I normally discuss her hair (I love long hair), eyes, and skin. What I think you are asking is that are their any men who won't be all about sex and the answer is yes. Constantly look for men who are different in what they do/say & you'll be fine.
2007-08-09 05:57:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Uhm, wow. You can't have met many good guys if a good guy is one who doesn't judge by chest size. I personally don't just look at the breasts alone. Body type, legs, even the way she dresses (though that one isn't a big criteria) are all things I notice. And sure I judge the person, we all do, but I don't act upon any judgements till i know the girl. Most importantly, her eyes. I always love getting lost in a girl's eyes...
So no we don't all talk about breasts, though probably the majority does.
--Max
2007-08-10 17:12:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Being a guy, I know when I was younger like 16 ish it was one of the only things I noticed, but now that im older its something id give maybe 5% of overall notice about girls. Im assuming you are still in highschool or something, so I guess its harder to find a real man at that time, but they are all over the place, just keep looking.
2007-08-09 05:37:48
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answered by Hamchopp 3
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We talk about other things, idk what it is about boobs that is so fascinating. But an ugly girl with a nice set, most guys will tell you thats a waste of a nice boobs. Think of boobs as like a nice shirt it depends whose wearing it, but its still a nice shirt. Some guys don't care about boobs, but then they're probobly @ss men, so there no such thing as a good guy. sorry
2007-08-09 05:39:01
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answered by Punk Rockr X 2
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And about 18" below the boobs.
2007-08-09 05:36:48
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answered by Anonymous
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So you are implying that "good" guys do not notice boobs and bad guys do.
You find a guy who does not check out you boobs and I'll show you a guy who would rather date Brad Pitt than Brad's wife.
2007-08-09 05:40:27
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answered by lunatic 7
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"ALL" he sees...???? No, not all of us. But I think most men would agree that (whether they want to admit it or not) boobs (or lack thereof) ARE noticed.......But you can have the greatest boobs in the world - and if you don't have the personality to go along w/it they don't matter. They may get attention and get you 'used', but they won't make up for a crappy personality.....
2007-08-09 05:38:39
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answered by barhopper 4
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Many guys simply wonder if she is a nice person, does she have a nice personality, etc. There are alot of good guys out there.
2007-08-09 05:36:14
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answered by Magic Man 5
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Nobody can see your personality from half a block away. The physical is, yes, the first thing all men see and the first thing all men will subconciously or consciously rate you on. But no, its not "the only thing we see", merely the first.
2007-08-09 05:39:39
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answered by Expat Mike 7
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